It has been a bit since my last post, I will try to be as brief as I can.

H does not seem to be spending nearly the time w/ his EA, and am pretty confident that it is platonic at this point.

I had lost it completely and gave my rings to him to do as he wished and told him that he should be the one to file as he is the one that started this, he should be the one to finish this as well.

I am certain there is no significant other, though I am sure he is looking.

I was going to implement plan B, but did what is above instead, as he I couldn't take it anymore. I asked if he at all saw us working on our marriage and he said no. just typing this kills me. He will not give me any answers to his thoughts and plans. I just lost it.

Where do I go now???
plan a again for awhile???

julie

Get your rings back..
put them on..
apologize for giving them to him..

and go to plan B....

protect yourself financially

ARK

Ok, I told my H he had to get his own cell phone and get his own truck ins. He sent this text today "I will pay you for my truck ins if you keep it on the business policy, they want $2700., we are paying $1200. now!"

I told him it was going to cost him in a flirtatious way and that I would make a list.

Deposit or julie is an idiot?

It seems the only thing he is interested in me w/ is what can julie do to ease his financial burden.

The horses are another thing he wants me to take one for myself when it is really to ease the burden of board? I think?

It is this kind of crap that gets me - why would he still attach himself financialy if he doesn't see us working it out? He says things all the time and then says he didn't say them!

I am loosen my frikan mind

I question if I should stay in PLan A because I don't believe he is w/ anyone at the moment and things are changing a bit w/ his friends.

Julie

quick note WE do not pay the ins, I do.

Julie