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DIvorce was final on the 18th of April..He has been calling repeatedly every single day since he recieved the divorce decree.. HE calls me at work where I have no choice but to anser the call...I asked him exactly what did he want from me..I told him that he has to stop contacting me every single day....I am trying to go on with my life..He says that He just wants to be friends and have sex occasionally..I responded with were is your girl friend and he said he hasn't seen her in a while.. I then told him that we couldn't be friends and work out our marriage what makes him think we can do this now? He said because he doesn't have to live with me...
Why won't he leave me alone...Any advise , comments, suggestions are gladly welcomed
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Can you tell your place of work not to put his calls thru to you?
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I then told him that we couldn't be friends and work out our marriage what makes him think we can do this now? He said because he doesn't have to live with me... I'm sorry, but he sounds like one heck of a nice guy! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Can you ask your boss for a new telephone extension?
Older But Definately Happier and Wiser
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Oh yea he is brilliant:) He is still trying to bring me with the blame game .. You know it was all my fault ... He felt tied down ..HE wanted more freedom to come and go at will ..He tries everything to strip me of my newly found confidence....
I just really hate to involve my job..I worry that then they will wonder about my stabilty etc.
I just don't understand ..I gave him what he wanted which was his freedom...
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Newandimproved,
What do you want from him? Is there any reason you have to talk to him? Do you want to keep the door open?
FBS, D'day 12/00 * NC since 5/02 * divorce final 5/06 * property settlement 9/06
What you can do or think you can do, begin it. For boldness has Magic, Power, and Genius in it. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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I don't want anything from him. I don't think you understand He will call me all day at work every two minutes ( and this is no exaggeration) until I will talk with him. I am trying to shut this door! And well I have asked him nicely and I have gotten really ugly ..non of this seems to work..
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Wasn't there a restraining order as part of your divorce? I would have your attorney write him and ask him to desist.
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