Well I met with my attorney and I signed the divorce papers. My state required a full year of seperation before being allowed to file for divorce. I did not want her served with the divorce notice at her job so I gave my attorney her apartment address. I am just glad things will be over and done with soon. Im still a little bitter about the whole thing but I know its the right thing to do. My attorney says everything should be over and done with in about 45 days.

On a side note, as crazy as this sounds... I've been out on alot of dates the last couple of months and I am very upfront about currently going thru a divorce but some of these women seem to want to move wayyyy too fast for me. Maybe its just me moving to slow but I feel like once i make it clear that I am not looking for anything exclusive, they seem to push harder for exactly that. So I end up doing 2-3 dates with them and then i stop answering the calls or I become distant. Kinda feels like I have fallen into "player or power dating mode" or something but thats far from where i want to be. Anyways, enough of my rambling.. just felt like posting an update.

I'm sorry things ended up like this for you.

Yes, there are people like that, even men who push harder for a commitment, possibly because they are afraid 'a good one' will get away.