i have been married for 11 years and my husband thinks that im suppose to just go to work and back home he dont think i should have 1 day week to go out with friends from work i should be at home with the kids whenever i am off. thats fine but i would like to go out with friends sometimes he feels if we are not together all the time when im not working then i am a bad parent. since he has expressed how he feels about me going out i have not been anywhere without him unless im working im getting to the point of exploding because im always with him i have no social life i could be alot happier if i could just get out sometimes and socialize with other people i need some suggestions should i just put my foot down and go out anyway?