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what i mean by this post is lets all for a brief minute think what is it about our spouse that does it for us?
for ex. me i know its my W's lips and her enchanting smile & i can loose myself in her eyes. they make my heart flutter.
merrily, merrily, merrily, life is.....
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1st thing that attracted me to my H was his smile and incredible dimples, then his sparkling blue eyes. Later...it was how tender he was with the kids.
Unfortunately I haven't seen that dippled smile come my direction for a long time. The eyes of WH are cold no sparkle. He is still wonderful w/ the kids.
edited to add: oh yeah, he had a cute butt too!
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WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
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Definitely her eyes, they sparkle and come alive when she's smiling.
Of course being a man, the rest of the body is awesome as well. No supermodel, but amazing in my eyes anyway.
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merrily, merrily, merrily, life is.....
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Can't even remember. Nothing right now.
Me:BW, FWH 1DD 1DS
Status: Chronicled in Dr. Suess's "The Zax"
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Pre A it was her heart. I loved her heart. She seemed so kind an compassionate and loving. She would do anything for me.
Now it's her butt.
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FWW 35
D Day 10/03
Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby
When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.
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Some months ago, I made two cards for my FWW, one titled "Things That I Like About You", and the other "Things That I Love About You".
Here's what I had to say in the first card:
Things That I Like About You:
- your warm hands that send shivers down my back
- that little sprig of hair near the top of your head that refuses to conform (just like you!)
- your feet, your toes that seem to have a mind of their own (always doing things to attract my attention!)
- your warmth that pulls me towards you in bed, morning or night, or whenever we are close together
- your smooth softness that keeps me there
- when you press yourself onto me and make me feel wanted and special
- your kisses, your smile and your laugh - all equally infectious
- your down-to-earth sensuality - no pretenses
- your natural scent, which drives me crazy!
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I fell in love with her smile and the way it lights up a room. The way her dimples set off her eyes... It was just contageous. I couldn't be around her when she was smiling and not smile too. (sigh) I still love her smile...
~~One day at a time is all we're given. Just deal with today and let God have tomorrow.~~
Me = 32 FWH in 1996. Current BH
Her = 33 FWW
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The butt! I'd go on but I'm a pervert when it comes to my wife.
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The butt! I'd go on but I'm a pervert when it comes to my wife. LOL. It's kind of funny, but my FWW thought that I used to hate her butt, that I thought it was too small. She couldn't be more wrong.
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Stop! Or I'm gonna have to go home and grab it!
BS (me) 36
FWW 32
DD 5
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Stop! Or I'm gonna have to go home and grab it! Lucky you if your W allows that, LOL. If I try grabbing my FWW's butt, I will probably be awarded with a good hard slap to the face. Not that it won't be worth it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />, but explaining the big red mark on my cheek to anyone who sees it might be a bit difficult <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />.
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At first it was his broad shoulders then and now its how he makes me laugh everyday even when I am crying and full of hurt.
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FWH 39
M almost 14 years
DS 11 DS 8 DD 4 DD 4
PA 1/02-7/02
dday 12-15-05
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Ok women notice one thing. We are not boob men. Most women think its the boobs. We all like the butt. LOL
Gonna go home and take your advice and grab it.
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D Day 10/03
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Pre A it was her heart. I loved her heart. She seemed so kind an compassionate and loving. She would do anything for me.
Now it's her butt. That's so funny..... I laughed outloud. Sorry <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" /> My H has big, soft, wonderful warm hands. So nice on my shoulders and neck. He's so warm and kind. Definitely a keeper - Dru
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Him. I love him....HE does it for me. His smell, his laugh, the fact that I am QUEEN....it all does the proverbial "it" for me.
- Kimmy
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Ewww Kimmy, you got all sappy. LOL
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I am a mush head. What can I say?
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sounds like its the butt now, and kimmy we need to get her a room <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> yeah many ladie belive that we all are breast men but there just for fun <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> its the smile that light up the inside of my heart or maybe its her butt.
merrily, merrily, merrily, life is.....
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ok fig. i would dra this thread up since i was a little down and now im up again so it's all good now. and its still her smile. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
merrily, merrily, merrily, life is.....
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