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Here's what was posted on her blog today...

I'm Sorry

Over the last few days you may have read a number of allegations regarding R**** G******** on this site. I'm sorry to say that I lied. I conducted a series of interviews with R**** regarding Christian music and evangelism. I am a freelance journalist, which is how I had the photos and the names mentioned. If I'm truthful I developed a crush on him. We never had an affair. R**** always kept his distance, though I did try. Therefore I must apologise to R****, S** (his wife), his family, his church and anyone else who has been privy to this awful thing I've done. Please forgive me. R**** please forgive me.

And for those of you so called Christians who were quick to judge R****... You are just as at fault as I am.



Added by shattered dreams...I just looked at the blog today out of curiosity, and that's all that's there in the entire blog. I didn't include the man's name, hopefully adhereing to the TOS standards. She did, in her blog.

I'm sure this will be met with a host of different reactions from those that followed the "powderkeg" thread regarding her posts. I'm choosing not to have an opinion on this whole sitch, but I thought some people might be interested to know how it played out...at least to date.

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big surprise

not

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I seriously doubt that THIS version is the absolute truth as well <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Well Melody, I guess she got paid for it after all (meaning paid off to recant) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Bunny Boiler for sure Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Well,
since you put it up SD .....why not a comment from yours truly? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

OK,
So now she's calmed down, let her emotions settled and NOW she regrets Outing this guy.

Typical behavior with someone that follows the compass of their feelings:
......first get hurt/angry ----Pressure Builds ------REACT negatively
......then once the Boil Over subsides ----feel Regret
.......then panic ----and try to UNDO whatever crazyness came out in the acting out phase.

Also,
Probably Got in contact with the guy and he's convinced her to do a "reverse" this person is Crazy / It was all made up routine.

Many Women will do this (to protect the guy),
cause Generally they are the ones that have their feelings and emotions wrapped up in the illicit relationship.
To the guy its just Fun and Extra.

As a result:
She vented, she got some attention .......then she recants in hopes of a future "something".

With My wife's CLB (OM) ...well his OOW (other other woman) did much the same thing --- and She was even convinced by this smoothie to quite her job/career in order to Save His.
She denied everything in spite of evidence to the contrary.

And it almost worked, except he had to also deal with me & my manipulations. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
We even got this poor girl her Job back! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

With all that said,
as with many things ......we'll Never know the full truth with AllsFair's spectacle. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/ooo.gif" alt="" />

Turn the Page. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Lastly,
these stunts are OK every once in a while ...but not too many in too short a time OK?
Ya Hear me all you Lurkers & / OR Trolls out there?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

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Could this latest just be desperate damage control?

Who knows?

Pep - can I contact you about some stock picks? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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what a nutjob. Sounds like damage control to me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />


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What a nut job is right! Sounds to me like maybe she was going to be sued for dragging this guy and his family through the mud publicly.


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Sounds to me like maybe she was going to be sued for dragging this guy and his family through the mud publicly.

IMO, that's hardly likely if an A DID occur between them - because the truth is likely to come out in any civil suit concerning what she had to say.

Sounds like the OM has pressured her to retract her statements to cover his [censored]. So, is he M'd? If so, does his W know about the affair? If not, why not? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />.


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I'm almost ashamed to admit it, but I have been following her blog. When I saw this recent rescention of her previous claims, I thought it due to a number of things.

One that particularly disturbed me was the idea R had thug connections. But then I remind myself AllsFair's backpeddling now could very well be she's involved with him again, but this time knowing the real score and cost.

I lean towards believing her claim that they were involved in a EA/PA affair. There was too much hard evidence to ignore.

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this part is actually fascinating ... like looking directly into her illness

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And for those of you so called Christians who were quick to judge R****... You are just as at fault as I am.


it's so nice to assign blame-sharing after one has to admit they were lying all along

how convenient !

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this part is actually fascinating ... like looking directly into her illness

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And for those of you so called Christians who were quick to judge R****... You are just as at fault as I am.


it's so nice to assign blame-sharing after one has to admit they were lying all along

how convenient !

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Pep

Hey Pep,

Its that one sentence that made me suspect it was not authored by AF. The sentence sounds more like it was authored by the person that was accused of the offense.

JMVHO ... and my Columbo-ish Theory

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Extra points to Allsfair for creativity, either way.

I have a wild imagination, and I just couldn't make stuff like that up!

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hm...

at best, another Dustkitty reborn.

At worst, a pathologic liar?

Either way, she's cried "Wolf!" 3 2many times for ol' 2long.

-ol' 2long

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what is sad also is that "if" she is actually a freelance journalist, she may have come to this site for the purpose of research

whatever the case, it's a shame that the people here were lied to and taken advantage of by her

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And for those of you so called Christians who were quick to judge R****... You are just as at fault as I am.

Hey Pep,

Its that one sentence that made me suspect it was not authored by AF. The sentence sounds more like it was authored by the person that was accused of the offense.

JMVHO ... and my Columbo-ish Theory


You may be right. I went to the blog and it is not signed by her usual AKA..Here is how it is signed:


# posted by ?? @ 1:47 AM

Very interesting, also AF was always very wordy and her posts were very lengthy. This blog is not at all like what AF would post. Plus, there are some mispelled words, strange for a journalist <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Just an observation for fun

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