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Hello my husband and i have just recently reconciled after about a 16 month seperation. He moved back in about a month ago. He had been in several affairs and confess to them all and we worked thru that and now we are back together. My neighbor who is the talk of our neighborhood has been coming over lately and standing in his personal space holding conversations with him. this makes me and him very uncomfortable. WHat should I do? SHe also talks to me very often and tells me alot about her personal business. she is definately the kind that would go for him if she thought she had a chance.
Although he says he would never I am still uneasy about it. HELP! What do I do?
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Ask him to tell her to keep her distance literally - if he is not interested he should be asking her to stand further away from him anyway.
Also you can both tell her you would prefer she waits for an invite to come over - when she comes around simply tell her it is not a good time for visitors. Ask your husband to tell her the same - she will soon get the message and look for a mariage with gaps in it that she can creep into.
Don't be down - offer to read through SAA or His Needs Her Needs with her - EVERY time she talk to you. Tell her what a wonderful book it is.
When she talks about her personal business just get the book out and look for the bit that would refer to her business and read it to her.
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Me BSx2 63
1st M 13yrs WS Multiple As.
DD45 DD43 DS41 first marriage.
Him WS 56 P/A. PA + Multiple EAs from day one.
Current M. 26years
D Days 10/02, 11/02, 01/03, right up to 03/06
NC since 03/2006
Me Stage IV Breast Cancer since 36months,
Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us (Hebrews 12:1).Titus wife, Linda
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Me BSx2 63
1st M 13yrs WS Multiple As.
DD45 DD43 DS41 first marriage.
Him WS 56 P/A. PA + Multiple EAs from day one.
Current M. 26years
D Days 10/02, 11/02, 01/03, right up to 03/06
NC since 03/2006
Me Stage IV Breast Cancer since 36months,
Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us (Hebrews 12:1).Titus wife, Linda
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