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My wife filed for divorce in March and we go to court on June 8th. We have 2 sons 3, and 9. She thinks the kids will be fine...however she is hardly around to notice.
I suspect she is involved with someone else and I told her I could forgive her and move past it...she continues to remain in denial and says she has no feelings for me and is completely done with our 10 year marriage.
I would do anything to reconcile and start over. She wants nothing to do with that. I have recently rededicated my life back to Christ and he is helping me get thru. I pray everyday for a second chance with her.
I continue to have days were I cannot stop crying and feel so much pain and I can't seem to let go.
Should I resort to plan be and cut myself off from her except things involving the kids?
How do I let go?? Or should I?
That which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger
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Welcome to marriage builders. I hope you will post on General Questions II, because it sounds to me like your wife IS having an affair.
There are a lot of things you can do to help end the affair. Read about Plan A, and stay in it for a couple of months. Then you can think about Plan B.
But the most important thing is to find out who she is having an affair with, and expose it.
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I have already exposed it however, she denies that this is the reason for leaving. I found out today that she has gotten back on birth control...she hasn't been on it in over 5 years. I feel that its hopeless now...maybe she feels to far in to comeback and fears being rejected by me? I don't know...I'm so hurt and would forgive her and would do anything for a new start with her.
That which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger
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