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Excellent post, Lizzie. Please consider making an addition to my Affair Exposure 101 thread linked below - unless you already have.
catgirl - I'd be lying if at some points I didn't consider the exposure I did as at least partly vengeful and somewhat satisfying. And I bet other BSs have felt the same. I think this is part of the normal emotional roller coaster BSs are on. So don't kick yourself. Looking down the road if you end up in divorce, if you don't expose, you'll have less grounds to conclude you did all you could to save your marriage.
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Thanks!
I'm hoping to expose to OWH tomorrow. I want to do it in person. Do I show him my "evidence"?
The other family exposure will be on Thursday and Friday. Don't thinkk I will show them evidence or show evidence to H either. What to do you think?
I haven't confronted H about this new evidence I have. He has been adamant that they are still "just friends" Will do that either Thursday or Friday.
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Yes, show evidence. Make copies for him if it's copyable stuff.
Keep in mind that you may not want to reveal all your sources because whatever you show to OWH will eventually be shown to your H.
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