Hi! I am in the process of trying to prove if my other is cheating or not because of suspicious activity on his part. Someone suggested I post this here.

I checked his messages recently and there was a "hold" message on his phone. I think what must have happened is that he called a number, received a call on call waiting and the "hold" message rang back and left a message.

It had "elevator music" and then said "Do you know we do family planning? You can use your medical coupon to get birth control and the morning after pill. Said call XXXXXXX for more information and if you need the morning after pill after hours you can call XXXXXXXXXX. Please continue to hold and we will answer your questions".

I can't remember things verbatum but that is the jist of the message. Anyone familiar with where that could be to? I would say a Drs. ofc or DSHS. And like someone else on my other post said - sounds like someone is knocked up or has an STD sounds par to me.

Would appreciate it if anyone could shed some light.... Thanks!

Did you get the phone number when you were listening to the message?

My guess is it's a Planned Parenthood type of organizaiton. If you don't know the number, look those types of organizations in your community up in the phone book and start calling them.

I got the phone #'s from the messages and the business names they apply to - but - I don't know the number that was originally called. The cell phone this message came off of is Cricket so it doesn't have a bill - I check the calls on it daily. When I had access to the phone again, the numbers called on that date had just dropped off - I was irked because I lost that opportunity.
I'm guessing its like planned parenthood too or something of the like.

If H has never set it up, you can register to view the cell phone bill online. You will usually need the cell phone account number and phone number as well as a few bits of personal info that you should know. My H gets the printed bill and doesn't know that I can view his cell phone calls online. Often the calls are posted within 2 hours on cingular. It also has a nice little phone listing that I can add phone #'s as I find them out.

Thanks for the tip but this is the problem. The cricket phones work only in a local area, it is kind of like a pre-paid phone. The quit having paper bills or bills with the calls on it a couple years ago. I do have access to online but they don't keep track of the numbers. Believe me I am searching for the loophole. We also have Verizon phones which I do get a bill for online. And with our Verizon phones, you can delete calls individually on the phone (not the bill of course) so this made me check the Cricket phone and you can't delete those calls individually. He messed up and deleted all his calls once (messed up in terms of looking suspicious). Anyway...still looking for the loophole.

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My H had a Cricket phone during his A and I hate them.
They definitely make it easier to hide suspicious activity, and having Verizon as well.. only makes it more suspicious...

Good Luck finding the loophole...

Stacia