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She checks her email at work and I don't have access to her computer. So once she knows I have access I'll be locked out.
I just found out that she has been in contact with the OM today. Sadly, it looks like he is coming over here soon.
So, I will follow your advice and expose the affair to her parents. I'm not counting on getting much, if any, support but at least I'll get if off my chest.
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Ok, exposure is done. Phew, it wasn't easy and her mother would not believe me about the extent of it. But I left the evidence for them to look at if they wanted to. Anyways, like I told them I can forgive what happened because I'm not without blame but I can't accept that the she is still in contact with the OM.
Thanks all for your support
usa99
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Unless you gave your MIL copies of your evidence, go get it back quickly. You never let evidence out of your hands; it will disappear down a rabbit hole quicker than you can say it.
Who else are targets for exposure? Workplace? Church or temple? OM's wife or family?
What do you have planned to do next? Take a look at the link in my signature block for a generic plan to organize the salvaging of your marriage. It'll show you how much more you have yet to do. Tell us what your plan is, okay?
BTW, why don't you start a thread on the "General Questions II" Forum? JFO is just not reviewed by many of the pros here on MB. You'll get a lot more advice and guidance on GQ II.
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