Has anyone here done this? I thought it was a pipe dream and googled it to find out I could have my FWH take one for $450. They claim 90-95% accuracy. I figure in the long run we would save $ by spending the $450 now instead of on all the flowers he has to buy me everytime I freak out about something!

U could pay for it.... or just watch his eyes. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

L.

I believe him but there are a few wierd things that I realize are weird since dday. I just dont know if I am being stupid by believing him. Obviously I was duped by him in a huge way before.

Seems silly to hook him up to me too but boy I would love someone to tell me yes its true or no hes lying.

Do it... the night before the test will be an interesting one... lots will come out right before the test. You have NO reason to trust right now and if this will help you get to the truth... do it.

I thought even the suggestion of it would be interesting to see his reaction. Seems like its popular among the BS crowd from the websites I have seen. I thought maybe someone here had done it. Oh well...something to think about anyway.

Hoping for,

Hi, it's F& L.....it would be nice to find out the exact truth...I think we all would like to know this. But, how many WS would agree to this? You have to get them to take the test first. I think most of the WS's would say they find it insulting to take the test - or a waste of money - they probably wouldn't agree to it.

I agree with Orchid.....I can tell when my husband lies by his eyes or the expression on his face.....the manner of his voice.

Lots of things are weird for everyone since D-Day.....you are not alone. Hoping For.....sometimes when you're upset, your mind works overtime.....making you see things differently than you would normally......making too much of something that you wouldn't have done so before D-Day.

Hoping for.....I know what you're going thru....take it easy.....be calm......you'll drive yourself crazy. I told you - you'll get thru this. I know how you feel thinking how long you have been lied to.....we are all going thru the same thing.....you'll survive.

Have a good night.

Bumping up for want to recover

Hey, HF?

I know you're transatlantic...but a friend of mine said she found this service in the yellow pages...

Just saw your post over on hotmail thread.

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LA

P.S. My 2cents about WS agreeing to it or not...My FWH would agree...why? Because the fog is partially induced from self-deceit...working your way back through is tough...might even help him. Might help me...dunno. I do know I'm not gonna ask him to do it, though.

I found the polygraph company through an internet search. I tried polygraphs, then narrowed down by searching with a city name. I am lucky to be near a big city so I think that helped.

It is $300. A lot of money, but a bargain if it brings piece of mind. Our MC suggested this weeks ago, but I felt funny about asking him to do it. I still do, but he does not want me to spend my time checking up on him. He would rather take a polygraph.

Our appointment was for next week, but we have our MC session and his IC session and the polyraph all right together. So I think I have to move it a little.

It's a scary to think that he will really do this. I hope there are no surprises in the results!