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Hi ML,
19 is in trouble. He needs your help. I know you have been helping him with his sitch on here. Could you please come over to the Recovery Board and look at my thread "I'm in a wierd place". Read from page 8 on..19 is on the verge of an EA with a MW. We have been trying to help him, but I think he needs to hear it from you. Hurry, he is falling fast. He needs your Texas size advice. He listens to you. He is probably going to hate me for this, but I don't care:(
"I hurt myself today, to see If I still feel...I focus on the pain, the thing only thing that's real"... Johnny Cash.."Hurt"
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"I hurt myself today, to see If I still feel...I focus on the pain, the thing only thing that's real"... Johnny Cash.."Hurt"
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Beauty, from what I read, he already is in an EA and talking "fog". Sad.
Glad
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I know, what are we going to do about it. I am just shocked at the how the fog has set in after just 4 days. We need help from the Veterans.
"I hurt myself today, to see If I still feel...I focus on the pain, the thing only thing that's real"... Johnny Cash.."Hurt"
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""He listens to you. He is probably going to hate me for this, but I don't care:(""
This always happens in exposure!
CORDUROY PILLOWS ARE MAKING HEADLINES!!
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It is a sad situation. I am surprised that 19 is posting on the recovery board. My state of mind leaves me susceptible to starting an EA (luckily, no prospects and no hope of any prospects), but I would never think to categorize my status as eligible for the recovery board. 19 needs to get a D if he feels so poorly about the M. Having an A is the worst thing he will do. Two wrongs do not make a right, even when it feels so good at the time.
Me:BW, FWH 1DD 1DS
Status: Chronicled in Dr. Suess's "The Zax"
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Beauty, I just posted on our "wierd" thread. (can I say "our" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> )
I am disgusted. I don't know about MelodyLane's counseling of him in his exposure thread...didn't read it...but MELODYLANE if you are reading, go over to the Wierd thread on In Recovery. He is whacked out and I am disgusted by this turn of events.
Glad
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I feel wierd exposing one of our own.
IMA..I was helping 19 with his thread here on QBII and then I moved to Recovery because that is where I belonged. 19, came over to Recovery to talk on my thread and to just hang out. He does have a thread of his own on here called "Need Support ASAP - Will Expose Tomorrow" that ML was trying to help him with. I am hoping she can help him. He is talking real foggy right now.
"I hurt myself today, to see If I still feel...I focus on the pain, the thing only thing that's real"... Johnny Cash.."Hurt"
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I have been posting with 19 all day, and Beauty has too.
I don't know what to say. I am sad that his life has taken this turn.
But I hope he shared this for a reason. I hope he takes everyone's help.
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I'm not getting anywhere with him right now. I need to take a break. I'll check back in alittle while. Thank you all for giving 19 your opinions.
"I hurt myself today, to see If I still feel...I focus on the pain, the thing only thing that's real"... Johnny Cash.."Hurt"
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Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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Beauty,
I am trying to find 19's exposure thread so I can bump it up for him to read himself when he wasn't fogged out. Do you know where it is? It must have gotten buried. If you know where it is, bump it up with a shout out to him to read himself.
It is not about him needing to focus on recovering his M. If he wants out, fine, but this is NO WAY to do it.
I, frankly, am surprised by my anger and disgust at this, but I guess infidelity on any level will do that to you once you've "been there, done that, got the t-shirt."
Blessings,
Glad
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You guys, I am just getting checked into my hotel and have to get out to a meeting. I promise I will peek in this evening.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Glad, I bumped 193296 's thread for you... Mel is on her way...Thank Goodness! Here comes the Calvary... Mr. Wondering is helping to lead the charge.. RIGHT ON! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
"I hurt myself today, to see If I still feel...I focus on the pain, the thing only thing that's real"... Johnny Cash.."Hurt"
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