My h has been very withdrawn and angry with me for several months. I think he is having an ea, if not a pa. I decided to go to ic and mc. My h has a history of depression and has been on just about every ant-d there is. There was a period after the last ea where he seemed to be much happier and the combination of meds were working. But not now.

We when to the c to see about mc, then we saw her separately. She told me that from observing my h's twitching and his hyper-speech, that the combination of meds is not working and that he needs to go back to the Dr. to be checked out. Says he is not in the mental condition to be able to work on the marriage, or to be able to met my needs. She told me not to push him to met any of my needs. So now, I'm having a very hard time trying to do a Plan A, now. She asked me to bring up the subject of adjustign the meds with him. I did a couple of days later, and he got angry with me, and stormed out of the room. It's getting harder and harder to take him angry fits. I'm having trouble dealling with it and just wish I could run away.

She was curious if he talked with me. No, he's totally closed off from me. He is very angry with me and has totally shut me out. She doesn't think he's having an a, but these where the same signs from the last one. I'm hurting and trying to deal with all of this.


dday 8/8/03 EA (2 days before my 50th b-day) BS (me) 50 WH 50 Married 22 years 1 daughter