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#1668031 05/25/06 11:03 AM
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I was in your situation just recently. Saw that my wife was connecting to yahoo mail, asked her about it, she first denied she even had an account about 20 times. Then said it was for personal stuff with her girlfriend. I trusted her for two more months but just couldn't shake the suspicion; got beat up emotionally every time I brought it up. I finally got a keylogger and you can guess the rest of the story.

Basically if there was nothing wrong going on, they'd just show you the account and say "sorry for making you worry"... There'd be no need to delete history... etc etc.

I don't know how to "hack" hotmail or anything like that but a keylogger will catch their login name and password.

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I'm not well versed in hotmail accounts, but I have one and I have noticed from time to time it "loses" the login and password though I have it set for the system to remember them. I don't have any idea about the "by.122.fd.bay122" portion of your question.

As Normal said, a keylogger is the way to go though. Here's one that was recommended by another poster:

http://www.actualkeylogger.com/


Here's another:

http://www.sharewareorder.com/ActMon-Home-Edition-download-30017.htm


And here's a third: http://www.ardamax.com/

I haven't tried any of them and cannot recommend one over another.

Come back and tell us what you find out, okay? Every little addition to the "corporate memory" here on MB means we might be able to help someone else someday.

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Thank you for your replies. I am going to have to take some action.

I hope it is all innocent, but something doesn't feel right.

I made him an appointment to have a "domestic infidelity" polygraph next week! Our MC had said in the past that maybe we should do this. We go tonight to MC, and I will let him know his appointment is set. Has anyone else tried this?

Of course, if he refuses to go, that will say something too.
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I just posted last week about lie detector testing and didnt find anyone who had done it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />. I of course am facinated that I could know "everything" I want to know.

How did you find the polygrapher?

Please keep me posted if he does end up going. I do think the reaction to me asking my H to go would be priceless. Good Luck!

BS 39 FWH 39 M almost 14 years DS 11 DS 8 DD 4 DD 4 PA 1/02-7/02 dday 12-15-05

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