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morning LA.
had a bad weekend.
in your corner.
tony.
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Hoping you are well - Dru
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HI Dru.
Thank you for caring.
Without detail it’s I’m in a bad spot right now no more ups the coaster stopped, and it’s stuck on the down position.
(((((Dru))))), thank you again for checking.
This site is been a blessing, it was my safe place to be, to vent, to cry, to get encouraged
To go on.
No more, maybe god is trying to tell me something, maybe it’s time to give up, I’ve been wondering lately, I never done anything bad in my life, why is God punishing me this hard? I wish I knew, I wish I knew.
Tony.
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Oh Tony....
God's not punishing you. He's been with you since the beginning. And He will tell you something, but not that you are being punished. Mostly, that He's been where you are, and He's with you right now. He understands loving someone who turns away from Him.
One of the things that helped me in the beginning was remembering that Jesus knows what it's like to be betrayed. He gets it. The hurt, the tears, the pain.
And when we can't pray, because our hearts don't even have the words, the Holy Spirit takes over with words and groanings deeper than our own.
Hang in there Tony.
johnstwin-
"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther
Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!
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Beautiful post, JT...
Tony? God reaches for you...I don't believe he punishes you...and I do know he believes in you, even when you don't think he does...read Johnstwin's post again and again...
LA
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Thank you JT.
Thank you LA. I miss your posts, I miss posting here.
I feel that I'm going to die.
I will keep praying.
Tony.
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HI Dru.
Thank you for caring.
Without detail it’s I’m in a bad spot right now no more ups the coaster stopped, and it’s stuck on the down position.
(((((Dru))))), thank you again for checking.
This site is been a blessing, it was my safe place to be, to vent, to cry, to get encouraged
To go on.
No more, maybe god is trying to tell me something, maybe it’s time to give up, I’ve been wondering lately, I never done anything bad in my life, why is God punishing me this hard? I wish I knew, I wish I knew.
Tony. what are the details? Maybe we can help you more effectively if I may say so.
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I'd say that if she continues to cut you and gut you with her contact with OM, you get to post your heart out here; it's just unreasonable to cut you off from a means of support that saves your sanity, when she's not supporting your sanity.
Openly tell her you are going to post here for support during her seige against her marriage and when and if she chooses to have a relationship with you that protects you, then you will no longer need this safe place.
Then post to your mental health!
Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1 The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"? The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!" If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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Hi Tony,
You are very seriously overdue for Plan B. I you cannot escape this madness, there will not be any marriage to save. You are not going to want her before very long. Please, please consider removing yourself from this drama, the sooner the better.
Can you condiser a last call to the counceling center? You know this madness cannot continue indefinietly, right? Please take care - Dru
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Morning LA.
good to see you too thank you for checking.
hope you have a nice weekend.
Tony.
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