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#1673802 06/03/06 12:43 PM
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I had a child 8 yrs ago. And the father was married. But in my situation I didn't know he was married he told me he was single. I wouldn't think different cause he would stay over and spent all day with me. Then one day I took the test and told him that i was pregnant and he said he had something to tell me. He look at me and told me he was married. I told him to go back to his wife and forget about me and the baby. I have since then 1 month after i had my son met my husband and he has known him. My son has met his father but doesn't call him dad. Last year the father tried to get custody from me. Him and his w was into drugs and they drank evryday so they had to take classes to even get visits and he told me it wasn't worth it. My husband and I are filing for adoption my son really wants to have my husbands last name.

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Dragon, unknowingly be the OW is much different than knowingly getting involved with a MM. I am glad your H is raising your son as his own. I read your posts about the horror you experienced with the manner of getting prg with your DD. I am very sorry and hope you are getting counseling.


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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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i am and things are working out for us. Just hope things stay this way. Does anyone know of any site i can go to about the situation i was in. Email me at dragonmasters1963@hotmail.com thanx


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