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can't forgive myself. is there any hope
#16737 10/03/99 12:01 AM
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The pain of regret and memories is too much to handle. I don't think I will ever forgive myself. Does anyone out there feel like me? I don't feel like "my story" relates to anyone.<P>------------------<BR>
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very Guilty,<BR>I just answered your other post--Infedelity-- I'm glad you feel like you do, you just have to convince your H. When you do, you will forgive yourself, and be greatful that you saved your marriage. Mine has convinced me, I just still have feelings of embarrasement, and wonder, how this could have happened in the first place, am I not enough for him? Well, I guess I am now. TIME will tell.<BR>Almost [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>---------<BR>TIME [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]
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Very guilty, Please know that if you have repented and turned from your sin, God has forgiven you. You really need to forgive yourself whether your S forgives you or not. My H held it over my head and I told him that I had truly repented of my sin and was forgiven. When I pointed out to him he stopped saying negative things to me. Whether your S is holding it over your head or not, don't you hold it over your own head. Walk in freedom, for Christ has set you free. Love and peace, Ginn

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