It's the 2nd anniversary of my original D-Day (well, he wasn't being honest about the A, but I got a 4 hour hateful ILYBINILWY speech and was told the M was over)... things are going very well, we are still NC with OC. Just wanted to thank everyone here for their support and also say that although I don't come around too much anymore, I'm so grateful for this site and everyone here, and it's a comfort to know that if OW calls someday to stir up chaos I have some knowing people to turn to.
Peace,
MSA

I'm so glad things are going well.....take special care.

Do something really special on this day either this year (not really enough notice) or maybe next year....make it a happy anniversary of something.

MSA~

Wow, has it been that long already? I'm always happy to hear good news. Glad to hear things are going well in your recovery! Sounds as if xow and her H are raising baby as their own, since it's been almost a year since the birth and no word. Don't want to be a wet blanket, but have you prepared yourselves financially or in any other way, just in case they change their minds?

Take good care...

Thanks Crazyhurt, it's going to be the birthday of the business I'm starting, so that is VERY exciting, and a much better b-day than d-day! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

AutumnDay, not a wet blanket at all, I think we'll be okay if she does go for DNA and CS... we'll see, one day at a time! Since going thru all this and our walk with God also, I have surrendered so much of my need to control and plan things myself. If we have to make major changes because of OW and finances, we'll do that later when we have to... as far as C or NC, we will also decide that once DNA is proven. It has given us a lot of peace at home to not decide things before they need to be decided on! Right now as is, we don't KNOW it's even his baby, nothing's proven. Of course as is indicated in LoveMeNot's thread by someone, the BW is probably the most stable person to raise the OC! Let OW wonder over whether we would try to fight for full custody or not... gives her something to think about! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

MSA