I have been emailing this girl from work for around 9 months. We flirt with each other all the time. She touches me and smiles all the time. She said I was her best friend. I catch her looking at me sometimes. She has been asking personal questions like my birthday and other stuff. She always brings up flirtatious comments that I have made to her in the past like it has stuck with her in her mind. Her body langue is all there. What is strange is that she stopped emailing me for awhile like a month and out of the blue she shoots me an email on how much she misses me. So we start emailing each other again and the flirting gets heavier. We went out after work with a bunch of people last Friday and she is just so hot! I could not get close to her because of other people that were there. Right now she has not emailed me since Sat. I have seen her at work. It is like she is holding back for some reason. Like waiting for me to call or email. I kind of had the feeling that she was doing that so I haven't called or emailed her as well. She called me today via paging and asked a simple question about something. And I asked is that all she wanted and she said yes.
So we hung up. It was odd that she would page me for that. Do women play call waiting games like that or is she just not interested anymore. I have made advances to take it to the next level but she is not responsive. I really dig her but is she playing head games. Help ladies please explain her actions.

Are u married??? If not, go for it. BUT be careful with messing around with all that stuff at work. Harrassment or sending personal emails will get you fired.

Watch out - this girl he's flirting with is MARRIED.