Okay, so I'm sure if you read this one, you're going to read my other posts too....

Anways, this is a total different subject......kind of.

If you start to lose that 'loving feeling' for your H, can you get it back if you save all the things on this site?

Can you fall 'in love' again if you eliminate love busters and meet each others ENs and all that good stuff that's here for me to read??

I need to know if there's hope or not. I don't get that same feeling when thinking of my H anymore. I don't get all excited when I know I'm going home to see him or when I know he's on his way home to me. It's like we're just in a routine now.

We go to work, take care of the baby, play with little one and when we have a little time together we may go golfing or something. But, it's just not the same......

Is there hope? or should we just end it now before there's more pain?

I know someone will ask this, so I'll answer ahead of time.....Yes, I want there to be hope. I want to be a family and I want to be his wife. But I also want to be happy. I don't want to raise our child alone but I'm beginning to feel like we're just trapped in a vicious cycle and the routine is the only reason one of us doesn't leave.

Absolutely...without doubt...you can fall in love with your spouse over and over again...

LA