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Anyone know what happened to that thread? I had a medical procedure yesterday, and when I looked for the thread late last night, it was gone! Just wondering...

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I was wondering the same thing.

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Yes, shattered dreams. It was removed after numerous MB alerts and at the thread starters request.


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Thank you, Justuss.

Not only for this, but for all you do!

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HOpefully SHE GOT MY MESSAGE THOUGH.

messedupgal sure chose the appropeau screen name.

she should imho add to her name fdupmessedupgal to make it perfect though.


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When I left last night the thread was nice again, SD had posted a link to an excellent article and I had posted my own sad story.

Must have taken a downward turn after that. And I admit to starting some stuff earlier when I questioned her intentions.

I hope she was being sincere and looking for a better future...but don't know what happened later in the evening...obviously something more transpired.

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she was NOT she was imho a troll.

she was somebody looking to start trouble..or she was really looking for justification.

she knows what she is doing is wrong.

or she's just a stupid troll from that site.

run trollies run..peachy's coming 2 get u!

all ow...STAY OUT OF ATLANTA...I REPEAT...STAY FAR AWAY FROM ATLANTA!


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Why did she ask that her own thread be removed then?

I was at one time an OW peachy...and I'll go to Atlanta any ole time I like. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Weaver, you always amaze me. You write some of the most thoughtful posts in these forums. Ya got soul, my friend! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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yea but weaver YOU'RE NOT ONE NOW..so you may proceed <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

it's just that WE GOT TOO MANY OF EM' HERE...
I am the OW BORDER PATROL!


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LOL peachy! If you are half as mouthy in real life as you are when you write, then I would love to run into you in Atlanta...I mean if you have something to say, just say it, don't be subliminal about it! LOL That's a compliment, BTW.

Thank you SD, you are pretty soulfull yourself, and it is good to see you posting lately.

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not "mouthy" at all...I am much more imho lethal to the waywards and their OP...I am a THINKER...I say what I think, but carefully spoken...my friends all laugh and say that I type about 10000x faster than I speak.

us grits have an uncanny way about us...we can hurl the most vile of comments but with our accents? doesn't sound nearly as bad...plus we streeetch out our syllables so we have to naturally speak more slowly.

my bf says "hayull (hades) has no fuuuureee than a southn' belle scorned"...gotta pronounce it right...he has a mean and vile xgf who's a paralegal..who he said it about..I was giggling rolling on the floor.


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Justpeachy, you are making clear and unequivocal threats of violence. As such, I've reported your posts to the moderators with a request to have them immediately removed. I completely understand your anger toward affair partners. However, violence is unacceptable. And threats of violence are, I think, intimidation. Please stop and take the time to think about what you're saying. "Lethal" is a truly frightening term in this context.


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Just J, Hey, chill out, will ya'?

Just who is the particular person that you think Peachy is "threatening"? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

JustPeachy wasn't physically threatening anybody. If she was violent, don't you think she would have stomped the OW in her WexH's life? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

She was just venting...and basically saying that she would let them have it...only with WORDS, not physically! Peachy wouldn't hurt a flea! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Lighten up! Not everything said here is as literal as you seem to take it! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


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