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>note to self<

resist the urge

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Don't resist on MY account. I'm a dandelion, remember?

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I am resisting on MY account !!!

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

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That would explain why right now your feathers are looking like the equivalent of Texas big hair! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

If it works for you, it works for me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Okay weaver is now out of the penalty box.

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BTW, I don't have any non-alpha letters in my name, but if I change it, will Pio promise to ignore me?


imanotherone,

I am sorry but your screen name does not fit any of my ignorant rules so if you want me to ignore you, you need to ask. I am assuming you just did that so now you are on my ignore list.

If anybody wants to be on my list but doesn't fit my filter rules, just post to this thread because I will be ignoring anybody who posts to this thread. That will be easier than asking me personally.

Except of course thndr&ligtng. Try as I might to ingnore this person, I can't because I can't spell the darn name. I guess I'll just keep trying.

Now if you will excuse me I need to go search through all weaver's posts for the past 48 hours to see what all she has been saying about me. This may take some time - especially if it was subtle. I hate subtle - I don't understand it.

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>note to self<

resist the urge


Note to Pepper: That only leads to constipation of mind and body.

Besides, they invented toilet paper so you don't have to resist the urge. LET IT GO!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Except of course thndr&ligtng. Try as I might to ingnore this person, I can't because I can't spell the darn name. I guess I'll just keep trying.


Here, let me help you out so you can conclude in victory, instead of quitting in defeat. Use this instead........

http://www.coplounge.com/board/images/smilies/2253

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Except of course thndr&ligtng. Try as I might to ingnore this person, I can't because I can't spell the darn name. I guess I'll just keep trying.


Here, let me help you out so you can conclude in victory, instead of quitting in defeat. Use this instead........

http://www.coplounge.com/board/images/smilies/2253

t&l


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LOL...You know that was meant to be FOG...hahahahahaha! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Course that was in "blonde world", so what do I know??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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Btw, it will do us no good to put Dorito Man on our ignore lists, because as soon as we do, he'll just change his name to Tostito Guy or something... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Someone may have already said this, but since I've been ignoring this thread, I can't be sure... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Note to Pepper: That only leads to constipation of mind and body. Besides, they invented toilet paper so you don't have to resist the urge. LET IT GO!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


And here I thought self-control in speach developed character, that it was something admirable, not something you needed to be followed with a toilet paper wipe-up. Guess I'm lucky after all that Pep decided to hold back. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

t&l

P.S. I've been sprayed like that before, but only at work, and only for money. I don't do it for FREE! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Hm-m-m. Maybe I should clarify. I'm not a perabulating female of the paveement and the darkness. I'm a nurse.

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Yes, I saw that it was fog, but since it had thunder and lightning with it, I adopted it for my self-portait. Neak didn't show it to me--she just let me find it myself because she knew I'd be amused. (and I was) The jihadi one would work well, too, as a representation of OtherSusan the Volatile.

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Speach?

Mother!

Hoo taut yoo hou two wreight?


A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb



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You have genius hips, did you know that? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />...wreight bak att yough.


A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb



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I was trying to ignore this post but was finally sucked in.

Question: If you ignore someone, then you might miss out on them saying something helpful, right?

Question: Don't you hate it when someone says that you never say anything helpful (i.e,. what they want to hear) and they tell you not to post to them?

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Don't you hate it when someone says that you never say anything helpful (i.e,. what they want to hear) and they tell you not to post to them?


I can see why you would get those comments but I wonder why you should care to the extent that it would hurt you personally. If you are genuinely trying to offer helpful advice and people don't want to listen to it, I don't know why you would hate it. I would think you should just feel empathetic for the person's plight, say a little prayer for them and go on. If you do truly hate it, then I would ask myself what your motivation was to begin with.

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Maybe hate wasn't the right word....Yeah, just roll my eyes and go on.

In all my years here, I've never said that to someone. I have ignored my fair share of people. Just of my own choosing - not because I used some fancy feature. Then, later, I have found them to have something helpful to say to someone else or - even - to me. You know, everyone has a bad day every now and then.

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Question: Don't you hate it when someone says that you never say anything helpful (i.e,. what they want to hear) and they tell you not to post to them?

Well Cinderella, I would like to respond to that comment, but I don't personally have any experience with posters asking me NOT to post to them because they don't like my comments... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Truthfully, this board can be very helpful to people (a lifesaver)....but I continue to worry that this place can continue to encourage and harbor extremely dysfunctional behavior. There are some threads (and posters of them) on here that have gone so far past "reality"...so far passed any semblance of "healthy" that it is downright scary. Yet, there will ALWAYS be people who can encourage this with "support". That is where this board becomes dangerous. When people substitute this board for REAL LIFE....it is bad. WHen they spend more time here than in REAL LIFE...it is not healthy for the person or the marriage.

A big frustration for me is the people here who DON'T WANT TO BE HELPED. That is what I truly "hate". I usually break down and then post to them like every 4 months or so...but it is always the same BS...so shame on me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

Lemomnman


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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lemonman,

So when can I expect my next post?

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