If anyone has been following my threads for the last couple of weeks, then you know that I have come to the realization that my H is passive-agressive. First of all, I'm totally embarrassed that it has taken me 27 years of M to figure this out. I was so busy raising our DD's that I guess I excused his behavior. Secondly, I was wondering, is it possible to "teach old dogs new tricks"? I know that I have to change my behavior in order to see any change in his. But at this advanced stage, is it at all possible? Am I just banging my head against a brick wall that won't come dowm. I don't want to throw my hands up in the air and just give up without trying, but it can be so frustrating. He doesn't even like for me to post on this site. He thinks that some of the people on here are looking for lonely, unhappy women to take advantage of. I really don't know where else to go to for advice. Any insight anyone can give me would be most helpful.