Thank you Ginn for this post. It is going to help me today, I've been afraid of my future.<P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Kate31, Just read your post, I want to encourage you. God is on your side! He hates divorce and marital seperation. You can stand for your marriage. Perfect love casts out all fear. Fear brings mental torment. You cannot control what your H does, but God can change him. A three fold cord is not easily broken. Don't look at the circumstances, keep your eyes on God, trust him "do not put confidence in man, but trust the in the Lord." He wants your marriage to work. Ask God to soften his (H) heart and one prayer I have seen work over and over again is that God gives you and your H a honeymooners love. A friend of mine called me out of desperation because she had strayed and didn't know if her H would want her back. She was not living with him at the time. I stood with her for her marriage and gave her scripture to stand on. We prayed for honeymooners love for them. They were back together in no time. If you listen to the devil and walk in fear, your faith will be broken. Fear is a conduit that links your life to the kingdom of darkness. It literally turns you into a negative magnet, drawing all the torments from the devil directly into your path. The Word of God says that whaterver you fear becomes almost impossible to avoid Job 3:25 "the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me." When faced with tragedy in his life, Job identified the root cause of all of his problems as fear. Fear is not from God! "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but power,love, and a sound mind" 2Timothy 1:7. When fear rises up, you must cast it off immediately, for it never brings any good thing with it. Speak the Word, Mark 11:23 "whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; HE SHALL HAVE WHATSOEVER HE SAITH." I stand with you and cast the mountain of infidelity and fear into the sea. Ask God to remember you and your marriage. Remind him of your marriage vows, "And she vowed a vow, and said, O Lord of hosts, if thou will indeed look on the affliction of your handmaid, and remember me, and not forget your handmaid, but will give unto your handmaid" 1Samuel 1:11 Make a vow to give your marriage to the Lord, that you and your H will serve him (or whatever God lays on your heart). "and the Lord remembered her." 1Samual 1:19. Sow a seed out of your need. Giving activates God. Choose to walk in Love toward your H no matter what he does or says. One good book by Kennith Hagen Jr. is "Faith worketh by love." and another is "Breakthrough for unanswered prayer" by John Ayanzini. You can receive both of these books free by emailing your prayer requests to these ministries. Also read Perfect Love casts out fear by Joyce Meyer on internet (very powerful). Most importantly is to keep your eyes on the Lord. Not your spouse! Not the circumstances for they can change. Seek first the Kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you.<BR>Agree if you want that "Satan is rendered helpless in his activities in your lives. I come against the spirit of separation and divorce, and loose kate31 and her spouse from Satans assignment against them. Satan your power is broken from their marriage in the name of Jesus. Father, we thank you that Kate31 and her spouse will be constantly renewed in the spirit of thier minds having a fresh mental and spiritual attitude. They have put on the new nature and are created in God's image in true righteousness and holiness. They have come to their senses and escaped out of the snare of the devil who has held them captive and henceforth will do Your will,which is that they love one another with the God kind of love, united in total peace and harmony and happiness. Thank you for the answer, Lord. We know it is done now in the name of Jesus. Ep 4:31,32 Ep5:1,2 Matt. 18:18 Ep 4:23,24 and 2Tim. 2:26. Mediatate on these scriptures and stand on his Word. And when you have done all to stand, stand! Cast all your cares upon him because he cares for you. Speak the Word only! Words are powerful, Jesus created the world and all that is in it with his Words. God Bless you and your spouse. Remember he is not the enemy. Walk in Love, Ginn<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
