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My husband and I are working things out.
He has met my conditions, but neither one of us are ready to move back in together.
We're taking it slow.
We talk everyday on the telephone, and I see him every other day. We also have been either going out together every other weekend or doing family time.
Last Saturday we took Brooklyn fishing, it was fun, I caught my first fish ever!!! (It was just a blue gill, but I was happy)
We are getting along great, and we are tenatively going to move back in together around September or October.
Just wanted to give you an update.
I'm fine......whether this works or not, I'd prefer for it to work.
God Bless All,
-Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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Congratulations!!! I am so very happy for you.
Good Job!
"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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Oh, Caren...
How wonderful to hear from you...with whatever news you have...
Congratulations on your recovery AND the fish...I believe in doing what we've never done before...a list of firsts, I call it...be sure to share those, 'k?
(((Caren)))
LA
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Glad to hear from you, girlie!
For it is light that makes everything visible. This is why it is said: "Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you."
Ephesians 5:14
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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have been wondering about you for a while. I'm glad it's goodd news. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
Now if we only heard from Gramn I'd rest easier. He hasn't written for ages.
cc
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Wonderful news...thanks for sharing!
So was it your plan B?
aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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Good job girl. I told you if you settled down and just let go of this thing, it might come back to you. Stay the course!
In His arms.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Been wondering about you, Caren! This is good news. So pleased for you.
"No power in the 'verse can stop me."
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Hi Caren! Glad you checked in!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Kim
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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Glad you checked in. Folks have been asking about you.
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Hey Caren live life enjoying every bite . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (of others) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Pep
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((( Caren )))
So glad to hear about this --
You Rock Caren !!!
Sending my best wishes, carnation
Me - BS 55
WH/FWH 50
OW 30
Much evidence says that my H was/is
deeply involved in a very long term PA
Prolly will never know much more than that
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Thank you so much all. I just had to take a break from MB, it was really starting to stress me out. But I plan on coming back, so I can be of some assistance to others who are in the shoes I was in when I first came here.......desperate. Thank you all so much for your guidance. Well, better get ready for church <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> -Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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