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My wife cheated on my and I found out Sept 2005. I dated a girl a few months afterwards and she cheated on me, as well.
I am now in a long distance relationship with someone I think is a great girl. However, sometimes things come up or phone calls / txt msgs / etc come up that just dont add up.
I do not want to make her pay for my past experiences. however, I do not want to be a fool and blindly trust when there are question marks that arise with what she says or the little lies I caught her in that could be harmless. I'm just starting to suspect that things are not what they seem though.
My question: is there a way to investigate land line phone records that are not in my name. Is it possible to see who she's talking to. I am suspecting now that there could be something going on and I just dont want to waste more time and end up being hurt again.
Does anyone have a suggestion?
Thanks!
Last edited by mathewoh; 06/15/06 01:27 AM.
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mat - are you still married? Your post says nothing about a divorce.
Mulan
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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We filed for dissolution last week. Just waiting on the court date. We had a lot of financial issues we were debating and trying to keep lawyer costs low. We agreed to a dissolution back in November 2005.
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mat - I think you're worrying about the wrong people here.
As long as you are dating while you're still married, you are starting those relationships under the worst possible conditions.
I'd stop worrying about what your girlfriends are doing and clean up your own act first. Get a divorce if you want one, and THEN start dating. Do these women know you're still married?
Mulan
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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