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I have been carrying on a good Plan A. Very few LB's, we've been to counseling and although he's still in denial he now says he's willing to try, so I feel like we're making some progress. but I am exhausted. I'm not eating or sleeping right. And I still watch him walk out the door everyday to spend 12 hrs. w/ OW.
My family is in a diff. state and they are having an impromptu Father's Day get together. They haven't seen the kids in months. If I go I could get some much needed help and relief.
How counterproductive would it be to take some time for me?
Me- BW 31
WH 31
Married 5 yrs. Together 10
Beautiful girls 1& 2
3 affairs to date w/co-workers
me BW - 32
WH- 32
Married 6/01
EA 10/01 turn PA 2/02 (denied for 4 years)
ONS 5/02
DD 10/03
DD #2 3/05
D-Day Jan 06
EA #2 1/06
turned PA 5/06 ???
WH moved out 7/06
WH moved in w/OW 10/06
Divorce date 1/07
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Not necessarily bad, but you're gonna takes the kids away on Father's Day?
Don't get me wrong - he's not being a good Dad right now - but Father's Day is a terrific Plan A opportunity when the WS is a Dad. - same on Mother's day when the WS is the Mom.
Are you on anti-ds? If not, why not?
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