I hate to say it but I lost control today and forgot everything I have learned from this site and you guys. A couple of things were bothering me today and I started a conversation and ended up blowing up. I left. I didnt know what else to do. I talked for about an hour and the only thing I could get out of her was "I'm not happy and I do think I want out", so I relpied "I'll make it easy for you and left. I finally realized that she has a problem that needs worked out but she has a problem talking to anyone, much less me. Until she decides to work on her problem I dont think it would have done any good for me to be here. Maybe I am wrong, but everything I have done to try to make deposits in her love bank have slipped through a hole in the bottom and dissappeared. I dont know what the problem is, for all I know it may be me or something I have done, but until she decides to communicate with someone I dont guess I will ever know. She is dead inside, I couldnt get any kind of emotion out of her, no anger, no tears, not even a go to h***, just a constant blank stare. She cares so little she couldnt even take the night off from work. Shes at work so I snuck in to grab a few essentials and thought I'd make a post. I think I can get on the internet at my moms so I will try to keep posting. Thanks for all of your help, past present, and future. Sorry for slippin and not following everyones advice.

Don't think there's nothing going on inside her - putting on the blank stare is just her self-protection mechanism, she probably doesn't feel too good about herself.
Make sure you keep your cool, keep your head up and talk to a true friend.
Best of luck