Like I said NO MORE DISCUSSION!!!!! Here is the letter I sent WHlawyer,

WHlawyer, After many phone conversations and proposals, I feel it would be easier for me to inform you of exactly what I will agree to, and if fbwidow does not agree to this then I would suggest that we go before a a judge. I cannot do anymore than I what I am doing already. First of all, I want you to know that I have been depositing $800.00 per month into our joining account. I do not pay any of our bills from this money. This is money she has been using at her discretion. This leaves me $800.00 per month to live. Out of this money I pay $125.00 per month for fbwidow, DD and my cell phones. I make a furniture payment of $127.00 per month, this is furniture which is being used by fbwidow and DD. I also pay car insurance of $140.00 per month and Brandon's college loan in the amount of $139.00 per month. This totals $531.00 per month. This leaves me $269.00 a month for rent, utilities, gas and groceries. So as you can see, I cannot even afford a place OF MY OWN UNTIL THIS is final. I HAVE NO RETIREMENT AND i WANT WHAT I AM ENTITLED TO FROM HERS. Iunderstand this is half since this day we married. I also have reason to believe that she has stocks and bonds also. I would like for her to show all of her finances, including any stiocks she may have. Attached is some copies of her accounts that I have from last year. I am willing to split the bills but I want assets split too, including equity in the house. I want to be fair, but WHlawyer, I am tired of trying to compromise, I am tired of the endless phone calls and I need to be able to live without the help of my family. I do not want to negotiate on the retirement, equity, or the request of DD's tuition. I cannot pay this tuition and if she pushes the issue then maybe she would like to pay half of SS1's and SS2's. That makes as much sense as her request. I also want you to know that since our separation I have paid off a joint Target bill in the amount of $300.00 and a TEXAR bank loan in the amount of $500.00. This was done out of my half of the income tax check. WHlawyer, I am strapped and need your help. To reach me by email the address is xxxxxxxx Thanks, WH.
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