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Hi to all the wonderful people in MB land,
Talk about fog...
Later he apologized for asking the question...
BUT, COME ON?!?!?!
The nerve! Sometimes he makes me sick with the amount of selfishness he is consumed by. That can't be healthy. Sicko.
Strongest (venting...phew, ok maybe I can go back to sleep)
Last edited by Strongest; 06/21/06 02:11 AM.
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A good response in a friendly tone would have been -
Why does it matter if I respect???
The real ? is, will you respect yourself?????
Will OW respect you 5 years from now????
My STBX has said some really insane things too, and when I think back I'm shocked at his utter stupidity...arrogance and down right rude behaviour...all this from an "adult"???
I'm at the point that I just shake my head and can't believe I have been drug thru the mud this long and allowed it to happen. That I fought for our marriage so hard, I should have thrown his butt out on D-day - end of story.....
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LOL!!! That I fought for our marriage so hard, I should have thrown his butt out on D-day ITHURTS: No, then you would have wondered "what if". You tried.
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It all sounds so simaler to what my STBXh been saying to me all a long. I like the part about being friends and hanging out. Duh, do you think the OW will allow that. Then what about trust, You cheated on your W with OW. Oh heres a good one
1. Soon to be Ex says one reasonong for not loving me, I'm to active in having people stop by or watching my cousins 2 babies. OW has a 15 yr. old, plus is a grandma to a couple of tots.
2. He hates living in the country, #2 reason for not loving me, but will keep the house and live in it so he does not have to rent.
I'm with you I wish I would have kicked him to the curb long ago, but then FBwidow is right, I would have always wonder what if. I can see some of the light. He is weak and only cares for himself.
Are the 2 of you still living under same roof? My Wh and I do, we even sleep in the same bed, but OW demands he sleeps on top of the covers. Even though I would never touch him, I hope OW is sweating bullets, he decided to come back to me last and broke things off with her, I hope that is keeping her up at nights thinking that could happen again.
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fbwidow, dkotax2, and ITHURTS...
Thanks for your support. This is a trying time. He is a goofball right now.
Strongest
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