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I just need to post. I dont know how I feel today.
Today is exactally 2yrs. since 1st D-Day. I think I'm ok but then part of me thinks I shoulc cry or some kind of emotion or emtional breakdown. Im just not sure how I am. On my way to work I relieved the whole event on what happended this day. Just dont want to replay that anymore, KWIM.
Was just looking for some of you guys to talk to, maybe cheer me up a little bit.
BS(me) 27
WS (H) 34
Married 6yrs.
Together 9yrs.
Stepson-16
Stepson-10
my son-6
OC #1 (G) - 2
OC #2 (G) - 1
DD-#1 6/21/04' #2 7/5/05
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Thinking you should cry isn't the same thing as actually needing to cry, love.
Maybe you NOT crying is a sign you're gettin on.
- Kimmy
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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Maybe you are right. Do you (or did you) just have that feeling sometimes Kimmy that you just should be more upset or more mad? I do think I am feeling a little better, but sometimes I still get a little anxious when I talk about OW or OC's. But I think that is to be expeceted. I have not seen OCs since Nov. of last year.
To make my day even worse my MIL just told my H that she wants us to get rid of our dogs. I dont want to get rid of our dogs. That made me cry. I am telling you it is one thing after another.
I have not talked to you in a while it is sooo good to talk to you.
BS(me) 27
WS (H) 34
Married 6yrs.
Together 9yrs.
Stepson-16
Stepson-10
my son-6
OC #1 (G) - 2
OC #2 (G) - 1
DD-#1 6/21/04' #2 7/5/05
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>should be more upset or more mad?
Not anymore. I CAN'T stay mad forever. It's a physical/emotional impossibility for me.
>To make my day even worse my MIL just told my H that she wants us to get rid of our dogs. I dont want to get rid of our dogs.
Wait...I thought that was your house...or that you lived there with the grandfather to take care of him....what gives your mil the right to ask that if you and your dh are doing all the hard work?
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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{{whitegirl}} just cuz, hunny
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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Kimmy we were going to buy the house and I said NO. So we live there and basically pay 60-70% of the mortgage and help his grandfather out on a daily basis. I take care of him.
She is just pissed cause she is trying to get work done to the house and there is/was Dog ****** in the back yard. If she would have told me ahead of time that people were coming I would have made sure that they backyard was cleaned up.
Sometimes I just get sick of dealing with family. KWIM.
I get what you are saying about you cant stay mad forever, you are right about that.
BS(me) 27
WS (H) 34
Married 6yrs.
Together 9yrs.
Stepson-16
Stepson-10
my son-6
OC #1 (G) - 2
OC #2 (G) - 1
DD-#1 6/21/04' #2 7/5/05
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Thanks for the hugs I need that
BS(me) 27
WS (H) 34
Married 6yrs.
Together 9yrs.
Stepson-16
Stepson-10
my son-6
OC #1 (G) - 2
OC #2 (G) - 1
DD-#1 6/21/04' #2 7/5/05
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Here's another...
(((((whitegirl)))
Eibrab
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Kimmy we were going to buy the house and I said NO. So we live there and basically pay 60-70% of the mortgage and help his grandfather out on a daily basis. I take care of him. That's what I thought. And you and your h do all the work taking care of him.... You've always had mil being a prig....today is no different...it's just that you had more than your normal daily dose of bull hockey to deal with. Take her with a grain of salt. If it's grand dad's house, she can't MAKE you do squat.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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BS(me) 27
WS (H) 34
Married 6yrs.
Together 9yrs.
Stepson-16
Stepson-10
my son-6
OC #1 (G) - 2
OC #2 (G) - 1
DD-#1 6/21/04' #2 7/5/05
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