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Re: How would you rate your M? imanotherone #1685415 06/22/06 05:09 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 810 S smartcookie Member
smartcookie Member S Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 810	Mimi... Did I miss an update on the cowboy boots??? Dang!!! "I require more from my spouse than behaving well in order to avoid pain." (guess who)

Re: How would you rate your M? smartcookie #1685416 06/22/06 05:14 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 2,693 F frognomore Member
frognomore Member F Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 2,693	You guys are crazy but you are helping your H live longer. There was an article in Parade this weekend about how women help men live longer pertaining to marriage. One of the things was SF at least 3 times a week and the better the SF the longer he lives. I showed it to the FWW and she said it looks like you are going to die young.(lol) BS 38 FWW 35 D Day 10/03 Recovery started 11/06 3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.

Re: How would you rate your M? frognomore #1685417 06/22/06 05:18 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	OMG Quote There was an article in Parade this weekend about how women help men live longer pertaining to marriage. My H pointed that one out to me after he read it.... and then, yesterday ... H was all worked up and anxiety-ridden and fussing around the house with a raincloud over his head ... and I said "YOU know.... I love you too much to allow you to get yourself all worked up over something that will not amount to a hill of beans next week. Plus, it is not healthy for you to become a worry-wort. If you promise you will "let it go" right this minute .. then let's go have some fun." It worked like a charm ... and later he said "this is why married men live longer and happier" dayum! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Pep LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: How would you rate your M? Pepperband #1685418 06/22/06 05:22 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 2,693 F frognomore Member
frognomore Member F Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 2,693	Pep, You are a darn good wife. I even dropped "Hint hint in there when I asked her to read it" She said if you want to live longer quit smoking. LOL Oh well getting the patch at the end of this month. One outta two aint bad. BS 38 FWW 35 D Day 10/03 Recovery started 11/06 3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.

Re: How would you rate your M? Pepperband #1685419 06/22/06 05:28 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 2,033 SoCalNoCo K krusht Member
krusht Member K Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 2,033 SoCalNoCo	"blind <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> sex" BLIND!?!?!?! sex... I thought the little guy was SoCal. SoCal <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> sex. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> That's better. CORDUROY PILLOWS ARE MAKING HEADLINES!!

Re: How would you rate your M? krusht #1685420 06/22/06 06:36 PM
Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,549 I imanotherone Member
imanotherone Member I Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,549	As many know, I've had no SF in over 4.25 years, so CUT THE SEX TALK!!! You've got one very frustrated gal among your audience!!! Just tell me that no one else is gettin' any, and I'll feel so much better! No more torture!!! Me:BW, FWH 1DD 1DS Status: Chronicled in Dr. Suess's "The Zax"

Re: How would you rate your M? imanotherone #1685421 06/22/06 06:51 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 44 L Lillian77 Member
Lillian77 Member L Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 44	Before the affair I would have rated our M an 8 or 9 . I thought we were very happily married, clearly my H knew otherwise. Wonder how he would have rated it during his A? His A which started after we'd only been married 15 months. Now, 9 months post DDay I rate it a 2 and I'm wondering if I wouldn't be better to cut my losses and run. It just feels like we've been climbing up - and slipping back down - this rock filled mountain for 9 months and the happy horizon still isn't clearly visible. I'm having a bad day kids and I really need some support. Is it normal for it to still be hard this long after DDay? The first 4-6 months were sheer ******. Over the last few months there's been progress but it definitely is starting to feel like 1 step forward, 2 steps back. When does one say enough is enough? (We have no kids and I'm only 31.)

Re: How would you rate your M? ManInMotion #1685422 06/22/06 08:01 PM
Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,554 M ManInMotion Member
ManInMotion Member M Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,554	(bump) ManInMotion =========== (see "MiM's Story" for more details)

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