I've been lurking for a few years, posted occasionally. Some days I find it empowering and inspirational to log in, for stories of recovery, both of self and marriage and some days I just can't believe the damn sheer inhumanity some people show to those whom they purport to love above all.

I have come to admire some and consider others as far away friends, even those whose life views differ from mine: WS and BS alike; Pep, Believer, KiwiJ, Aussie's wife, Bob Pure, JustJ, GreyCloud (GC - have wanted to join in the fire so often - you for sure will find the right gal) , JL, Dorry, Paradise Blue (on other forum JFO, my personal favorite) and have found so much comfot in their company -- but some days the bad outweighs the good. I look for the occasional happy ending, no longer for myself, but for others and find more often than not I log off disgusted with how people treat thier significant others. Perhaps my lesson is for the next go around, when for sure the same old problems will come up again. I guess I just wanted to say thanks, for the good and the bad, and for a place to go when the nights are so long. G

Nice to meet you and your welcome! I hope you are finding a place in life, as your post has a ring of melencholy to it.

(((HUGS)))

I agree with Dorry, there's a longing and a resignation in your post. S'up ?