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Heh. Good for you, and good for your friend! Now THAT is a true friend! What a good idea!
What did WW say, if anything?
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Woo-hoo! Score one for the good guys!
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Playdate cancelled.
Pout. Slam. Stomp.
Perhaps some FWSs would like to chime in about the parent/child cause/effect dynamic?
How they perceived things during these times?
You could ask.
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That's a good point. My son definitely noticed that my wife's leaving the room was a calculated move. He asked her to come back and she didn't.
Can you imagine a woman so angry with her husband for trying to stop her adulterous affair that she can't bring herself to sit with her child if the husband is on the same couch?
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Just once..ONCE!..I would love to see a WS actually verbally express their anger..I want to HEAR one say the words.. "I am FURIOUS because I wanted to have sex without you knowing about it and you RUINED it by knowing." I mean..honestly..how dare you. Just who do you think you are? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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Just to give you an idea about how badly my wife is caught up in her addiction to this affair, she actually wears the perfume the OM gave her around the house while in her gardening clothes. A few drops of vinegar in the perfume bottle should fix that problem...
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Just to give you an idea about how badly my wife is caught up in her addiction to this affair, she actually wears the perfume the OM gave her around the house while in her gardening clothes. A few drops of vinegar in the perfume bottle should fix that problem... What an idea!!! LOL!!! L.
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It is a good idea. Just a subtle difference, so she may not even figure out what happened. If she still wears it, a few more drops...
Anything she's allergic to that you can add?
Me - BS
DDay 1 (Multiple affairs while overseas) - Feb 2003
DDay 2 (AdultFriendFinder Profile) - April 2007
Seeing a counselor. I think we have him stumped.
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Just to give you an idea about how badly my wife is caught up in her addiction to this affair, she actually wears the perfume the OM gave her around the house while in her gardening clothes. A few drops of vinegar in the perfume bottle should fix that problem... What an idea!!! LOL!!! L. You guys are brilliant! I LOVE this! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Thanks for giving me a reason to smile tonight!
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Just once..ONCE!..I would love to see a WS actually verbally express their anger..I want to HEAR one say the words.. "I am FURIOUS because I wanted to have sex without you knowing about it and you RUINED it by knowing." I mean..honestly..how dare you. Just who do you think you are? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> My WH came close to that after I exposed to OWH. WH called me, almost sounded like he was in tears and said: "Now you've done it, OW is scared to be with me, will you please tell her that you won't to anything else to her?" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
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Just a dab of itching powder on the spayer.
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Here are a couple of ideas! Do this outside, so you won't spray the perfume inside the house. Pour the vinegar into a bowl big enough that you can put your hand holding the perfume bottle down into the vinegar. Push the sprayer pump down and hold it as you lower it into the vinegar. Once you have the pump into the vinegar, release the pump and see if it sucks some of the vinegar into the bottle. If that fails, maybe you could spray a tiny bit on yourself while you're hanging out around the house (shower before you go anywhere, though! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> ). Maybe, after a while, when she smells the perfume, she'll think of YOU!
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
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But is vinegar the best choice? Well, vinegar can neutralize odors, but I'm not sure what it would actually do to perfume. If you really wanted to mess it up, you could always go to the sporting good store and buy some of that stinky stuff that hunters put on their clothes to disguise their scent. There's a product that's supposed to smell like skunk. Check out this website: Skunk Scent Now, THAT is what I'd use if I were you, but wear some of those thick Playtex gloves before you stick your hand down into it with the pump sprayer.
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
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