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bigkahuna #1688758 09/05/06 10:52 PM
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The road less traveled. Further beyond the road less traveled?

What do these mean? Are you asking for a book report? I can't handle that kind of stress.

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LOL, BigK. Like I said, Myrta and I have been there, done that. I was trying to find the posts but they're reasonably embarrassing for both of us.

Me??? I'm such a pussycat. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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No. You stayed with Rob because you have an affinity to pink shorts.

Hey Pio.

Don't knock pink shorts. Since I have become Rob, I am secure enough to wear the pink shorts...

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Me??? I'm such a pussycat


Yeah, right....

You could take Myrta any day.

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Well my money would be on Myrta simply by virtue of the fact that KiwiJ would feel compelled to play by the Marques of Queensbury rules. Myrta, being PR, would have no such limitation.

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And that's pretty much how it played out. LMAO.

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Well my money would be on Myrta simply by virtue of the fact that KiwiJ would feel compelled to play by the Marques of Queensbury rules. Myrta, being PR, would have no such limitation.

Hey! are you saying that PR's don't follow the rules?

yeah, you are right.

If they followed the rules, I wouldn't be here.

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If they followed the rules, I wouldn't be here.


Yes, well, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

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If they followed the rules, I wouldn't be here.


Yes, well, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

LMAO.

I guess that was self-evident, huh?

Hey, it's midnight here and I am cooking dinner. Someone call the fire department.

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It's mine, mine, mine.

If the universe of universe can be desplutonizade in one day I can have my own star.

Now, Continental breakfast is not that expensive, in which expensive hotel you are going to have to pay it, that's another story, but sooner or later that EA of yours with T would have costed you something.


(Now I have to find a way to take away the five stars of Regreted thread, I was playing.)

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larousse,

You disappeared when I asked you some questions.

Are you French?

What does larousse mean?

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(Now I have to find a way to take away the five stars of Regreted thread, I was playing.)


That'll learn ya, as I believe they say in America. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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OMG - you mean there's rules????? WOW

So Jen - a link would be nice...... stop playing hard to get.....


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I think Larousse is the name of the editor.compilator of the French dictionary that later became and publishing house of dictionaries and enciclopedies but not sure. I chose it because in front of my eyes there is a shelf with dictionaries two of them with big Larousse letters. It was the easiest way to remember my id here.

I could have choosen Webster's but as you have noticed I seldom open it.

Bad Kiwi, let me find a way to add five stars to your bird name. What about a tiara with five fake gold stars for your next night out ? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

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larousse,

You are way over my head. I am a simple country boy.

Are you in France, Quebec or Mexico?

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México city, Coyoacán.

Larousse is the name of the company and brand of dictionaries. It's more famous books are books to learn French.

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If I could be a dictionary I would like to be a

Dictionary of Dreams for Children.

Dictionary of Flowers.

Dictionary of Endangered Words.

Dictionary of Woods.


[color:"red"] :::If you were a DICTIONARY what would be your speciality ? :::
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Well larousse, I hop regreted calls you because she is killing any chance she has of saving her M. Last I heard BH left in the rain. He is not exactly a sympathetic character - wife beater and all - but it is regreted's decision to want the M or not. Right now she is killing it.

In my case and for the last six months, it hasn't been the A that has been the problem. The problem has been the dishonesty. As a BS, I cannot put the A in the past as long as WW continues to lie about it.

I cannot imagine how her H would react to the truth. I would definitely recommend she have that conversation in front of a witness - maybe a priest in the church. I just don't know but she will never be able to hide this and have a viable marriage IMO.

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I feel so bad for her Pio. She hasn't call. I really don't understand why she can't connect the dots of the origin of the problem. Fog I guess and rationalization.

I admire that you can help her even if the problems she's facing are so close to your past, I hope, situation.

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I try to help her because she asked. I still remember that first desperate day when she was almost suicidal, it was about 1:00AM for her and nobody was on the board. I answered her in Spanglish and she opened up the floodgates.

I have never really been happy when she has tried to give me advice about my sitch but I just ignore it for obvious reasons.

On the other hand, nobody is perfect. If I were to condemn her for what she has done, I might as well forget trying to save my own marriage.

What I wish would happen is that she convince her BH to post here or seek help elsewhere. I think he does want the M but neither one of them knows how to save it.

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