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bigkahuna #1690258 09/23/06 11:07 PM
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Now you7're all in serious trouble getting Mel's attention like that. Tsk, Tsk, Tsk.


bigK is right. We need to try to stay below the radar. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

ToddAC,

What bigK is telling you is what I was trying to tell you. He just says it better than me. At the point you and I are at, Dr. Harley has a logical plan. You don't perform an autopsy on a living thing. Stop dissecting and decide first to either pull the plug or call for the crash cart.

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That was too funny. Poor Doug didn't know who had put the link to his site.


How's that crow tasting about now KiwiJ? Now if larousse would just send it to you...

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Oh, I din't get the MP3 but I got a mail from the photographer of the site of photographies of Birds and animals of Baja California and he thought I was an American Captain that sometimes works with my older sister and her husband. He says he got several hits to his site from MB.

Oh too funny.

All the work is related to enviromental preservation issues. I hope I don't break any MB forum rules. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

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Birds and animals of Baja California Mexico

another direct gallery to his work

web page

Both cases the running program is very fast.

larousse #1690262 09/23/06 11:32 PM
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If you don't get the MP3, I'll upload it tonight.

Forum rules are members of the opposite sex (or gay members of the same sex) cannot communicate by email. Too much danger of an EA breaking out. KiwiJ is absolutely right. She is just being right in a mean way <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

piojitos #1690263 09/23/06 11:46 PM
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You mean Kiwi is like a thorn?

Thorns are the way of roses of being mean.

The Little Prince


Hola Kiwi, have you tried a Tempranillo from Baja California?

2muchhrtbrk #1690264 09/23/06 11:47 PM
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That is my point...you are currently miserable b/c no one is in control...limbo, stagnant, directionless. Remove the element of control from your M and you would be miserable right?


I am miserable because I cannot get closure. This never was a true Plan B because we had an agreed upon termination date. Even so, I have tried to use it to the best advantage I could. But I no longer see any benefit to continuing this "vacation" and I don't think gemela sees any benefit either.

The limbo I refer to is the long-term period between Dday/Plan A and R. I am talking about the last 13 months of limbo - not the last few weeks. However, yes we are now in stagnation. NC is serving no useful purpose. In fact, what I am saying is that NC is probably now doing more harm than good in terms of possible R.

There have been some very positive things resulting. Both the DDs and I know that I can be a reasonably good single father. They are very comfortable with me caring for them. If being a single father for a long time is in my future, I no longer have any fear of it.

But now my detachment grows exponentially or, at the very least, logarithmically. We need to regroup and either try to set some groundwork for R or go to a true Plan B. I cannot leave the DDs hanging wondering when mommy is going to come home.

larousse #1690265 09/23/06 11:49 PM
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You mean Kiwi is like a thorn?


I have never said KiwiJ is a thorn but she will be the first one to tell you that I am a [censored].

Sorry KiwiJ - just had to take that opportunity from you <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />



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she will be the first one to tell you


Actually that's not true. She would be in line behind nikko.

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and I just love any opportunity to quote the little Prince. Luv y' Kiwi.

Now, Tejas is suspiciously quite.

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Pio,

I didn't get the mp3 either.

ToddAC #1690268 09/24/06 12:08 AM
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Hola Todd, cómo estás?

Lot's of interaccions with your wife.

ToddAC #1690269 09/24/06 12:11 AM
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Since it was a large file, the server may schedule it for later. I'll just upload it tonight. Did you get my other email?

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I once took a Mexican culture course and the instructor had a Mexico/USA map with the border drawn differently. It had Texas, New Mexico, Arizona and half of California shown as part of Mexico. He told us that the USA had taken the best part of Mexico. They took the part with all the major cities, all the high rise buildings, major airports, movie industry, computer industry...

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Hola larousse,

Muy bien, gracias.

¿Qué onda?

piojitos #1690272 09/24/06 12:37 AM
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too funny, next thingwill be to say Mx gave Bush to US.

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Remember no Bushwhacking allowed - 2much is very calm right now and we need to keep her that way! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

bigkahuna #1690274 09/24/06 12:39 AM
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What I really like about Harley is that he has the only recipe if you like for marital recovery - practical steps, do this that I have seen.

Pittman is one smart cookie when it comes to affairs but what is his plan for surviving them and building your marriage again. Harley has no peer as far as I have seen. Everyone's an expert at defining affairs and the reasons. Harley is the only one who has a viable plan for recovery. Certainly appeals to this engineer.


Hi BigK,

Excellent point and I agree.

I guess my problem these days is that WW is trying to place all the blame for her affair on me. It has made me a little sensitive to the subject and probably why I am fighting "the system".

BTW, what type of engineer are you?

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When did you send it?

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Todd, great Spanish, those Mexican nights are paying off.

Now, The System includes critics of the system that preserve the system. Mexican PRi party, that ruled for 62 years, knew it well.

The British Royal family is called The Firm.

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Todd, great Spanish, those Mexican nights are paying off.


I can sing every word to Lambada, Nunca el Domingo and Malagueña. Not in tune of course but no hope for that. Trying to pick out Lambada on guitar.

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