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larousse #1690418 09/24/06 11:05 PM
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I have never gone or used IRC, could the antispyware be '`planting' things to make me think I ave more than I have?


Err... no. IRC may have been a third party to a site you visited, it could have been devlivered in a email or directly attacked your computer. Okay, do you have a firewall? If not, and I suspect not for some reason. download the freeware version of ZoneAlarm.

stph20 #1690419 09/24/06 11:08 PM
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It made me want to go to France


Careful, this is a thread in which we bash France. Everyone except Luna and that's because she used to live there, although she now denies it.

ToddAC #1690420 09/24/06 11:13 PM
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You need to tell me these things!!! I'm new here, remember?


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"Sometimes, I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough...but I'll stand back up."
stph20 #1690421 09/24/06 11:13 PM
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Great mail From your DD Kiwi. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

ToddAC #1690422 09/24/06 11:15 PM
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Jen,

Nice email, but not to make toooooooo fine a point about it - you know we all hate the French right?

LOL


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larousse #1690423 09/24/06 11:16 PM
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stph20, don't worry, they really aime la France avec pasion.

larousse #1690424 09/24/06 11:29 PM
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larousse,

don't forget I read French.

stph20,

BigK has this great lecture on blind trust and what a bad concept it is. I think he is just being nice. Stay here a few days and you'll get his full treatment. He means well though. I'll give him that. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Basically if we trust blindly, we can expect to get blind-sided. It is a huge mistake that many BS's have made to get them where they are. You should never trust anyone completely under any circumstances.

What do you think is the number 1 EN for your H that OW filled and you didn't?

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stph20, don't worry, they really aime la France avec pasion.

larousse,

Au contraire. It is not an illusion; we really hate France. BTW, your screename sure sounds "Frenchy". What does it mean? Surely, you are not a French sympathizer, or someone from Frahnsay hiding out in Mehico?

ToddAC #1690426 09/24/06 11:31 PM
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LOL, we've already been through what Larousse's name means.

Do you know something I can't for the life of me think what need the OM filled that Rob didn't.

Has anyone got any ideas?

KiwiJ #1690427 09/24/06 11:33 PM
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Pio, are you trying to get stph to say SF?

KiwiJ #1690428 09/24/06 11:33 PM
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Romance?

piojitos #1690429 09/24/06 11:35 PM
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Who me? or stph?

If it's me, perhaps yes.

KiwiJ #1690430 09/24/06 11:35 PM
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Well you were a cake eater then Jen? Getting needs filled by 2 men? Or was it just the way OM made you feel?


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bigkahuna #1690431 09/24/06 11:37 PM
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Pio - Stph said not a word about blind trust.


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KiwiJ #1690432 09/24/06 11:38 PM
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LOL, we've already been through what Larousse's name means.

Have I not explained about my memory?

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Do you know something I can't for the life of me think what need the OM filled that Rob didn't.

How about admiration? And drinks.

bigkahuna #1690433 09/24/06 11:39 PM
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Seriously, BigK, I don't know. Like I said I'm an admiration junkie. Maybe it was that. OM was always saying that he was surprised I wasn't a lawyer like my father and that I should finish my degree.

KiwiJ #1690434 09/24/06 11:45 PM
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Yes, Todd, OM was a drinker like me. Rob isn't. I said to my sister once that the OM was flawed like me and that Rob was perfect. He just doesn't make mistakes (for one thing he would never have an A) although he said to me after d-day that he's just human and makes mistakes just like everyone else.

The OM also made me feel very smart and very clever. But Rob does that. Rob, however, is much smarter and cleverer than me. OM was smart in a way that doesn't impress me - business smart and math smart. (Sorry math guys)

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'Nous avon tout la vie pour nous amusse nous avon tout la morte pour nous repose'

Chanson du Mr George Mustaky, Greeke imported to France by Edith Piaf.

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The Policy of Radical Honesty makes both members of a couple accountable in front of the other of their time and actions. I think MB approach to the topic of lack of honesty is that most of us could be dishonest if left to our own devices.

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It's just that I have a theory Jen that OP fills some EN's better than the spouse. I find it interesting you said what you said..

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Do you know something I can't for the life of me think what need the OM filled that Rob didn't.

So maybe OM filled need for admiration better.

Either that or you have an insatiable need for admiration. In which case, I wouldn't like to be Rob if someone else is able to meet that need in you.


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larousse #1690437 09/24/06 11:50 PM
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Todd, Larousse is the name of a French Publishing Co. of Dicctionaries and Enciclopedies. The name Larousse was the family name of the man who started the business of publishing books, specially books to teach French to inocent, pure and unfrenched foreingers.

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