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piojitos #1690698 09/26/06 06:50 PM
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ToddAC,

The woman with the handcuffs? Don't forget you are STILL legally married.


I know, it's just when you slapped those handcuffs on me, well, I cannot explain it exactly. This rush just came over me.

ToddAC #1690699 09/26/06 06:53 PM
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I know, it's just when you slapped those handcuffs on me, well, I cannot explain it exactly. This rush just came over me.


I know exactly what you mean. You're not alone. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

piojitos #1690700 09/26/06 07:27 PM
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Can't see you involved in a fight unless it's verbal...have you ever engaged in a physical altercation


Never been involved in a physical altercation unless you count me sitting on my sister's head to shut her up when I was 5 and she was 7.

Pio, in your dreams. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

KiwiJ #1690701 09/26/06 07:29 PM
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When are you and Todd going to consummate this ongoing EA?

All this lovey dovey EA stuff is puke making.

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When are you and Todd going to consummate this ongoing EA?

All this lovey dovey EA stuff is puke making.

We cannot. We are soulmates don't you know?

And BTW, when I picture you and Myrta fighting, it is in mud. It would be a great fight but I am placing 5:3 odds in favor of Myrta. That PR blood is something to contend with.

ToddAC #1690703 09/26/06 07:40 PM
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So you and Pio both have the same mud fantasy.

Veeeeeerrrrrry interesting.

I fight dirty Todd. But, it's true, *sigh* I fight dirty with words. I have Celt blood (on both sides) and I'll put that against PR blood any day.

ToddAC #1690704 09/26/06 07:42 PM
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ToddAC,

We have discussed this before. Myrta has no true advantage over KiwiJ. The reason that KiwiJ would lose is that she would naturally fight according to the Marques of Queensbury rules. That is always a disadvantage.

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I have been debating whether to buy half of my friend's company or even to return to work. I have decided against both. When I was a teen, I played in a band. I play guitar. It was the greatest experience of my life. Groupies all around you whenever you play on stage. Anyway, I am going to join a band. Initially, I thought I may be a little too old, but then I look at Ron Wood and Mick Jagger and they are what, 85, 86 or so? So it is settled. I have a drummer. I need another guitarist, keyboards and bass. I can write music and lyrics so we do lay down tracks of our own stuff. I guess I have delusions of gradeur but honestly, if I am going to have delusions, why shouldn't they be of grandeur?

And we'll cover some other recording artists as well. Eagles, Beatles, U2, Counting Crows, America, etc. I also have contacts in the recording industry so that will help. Since Atlanta is the music capital of the world, that will help as well.

Wish me luck!

KiwiJ #1690706 09/26/06 07:43 PM
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The thing is I think Pio looks better without the moustache but I don't want to offend him if he still has it.

KiwiJ #1690707 09/26/06 07:43 PM
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Hi Kiwi, Pio (aren't you sleeping?) & Todd,

Just a quick thought for you Todd. In reading the differences you're finding with your WW & given the fact they seem substantial, what do you see in her that makes you want to save the marriage? Do you think since SF is your top EN & perhaps you're missing that, this is influencing your desire to stay married?

How does any of this matter if your WW won't acknowledge, much less work on the fact, she is an alcoholic? No disrespect intended.


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KiwiJ #1690708 09/26/06 07:44 PM
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My son will get the band together for you. He's a professional musician (and a very good one).

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Well actually I have always been plagued with delusions of mediocrity. Some day I hope to achieve them.

piojitos #1690710 09/26/06 07:51 PM
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I did get another hour of sleep, got up and stairclimbed, and now getting ready to leave. The maid pointed out to me last night she is running low on cleaning supplies so I am making my shopping list.

Tonight I coach DD1's soccer game and then DD2 has a game right after. I am "Snack Mom" tonight so am busy putting together packages for the girls. We only have 12 on the team but I need about twice that for their younger brothers and sisters who go to the games and cry when they can't have snacks too.

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My son is looking to get a band together...shall I tell him you're interested Todd?

With just one pottery student I plan to make a gazillion pieces so when I have my show in Aug. I'll have so much work I'll need a truck to get it to the gallery.

Oh & since it can get kinda boring with just one student I think I'll conjure up Patrick Swazzy just to add a little excitment.


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Well I think Stef is giving her WH SF. Nothing else takes this long.


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
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Like KiwiJ said "In your dreams".

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I feel sorry for you Pio. I don't know if you saw my post about a soccer game I saw a couple of weeks ago with 8 year olds. One poor man was out there by himself while one boy was on his back kicking his legs in the air, another was pretending to swim while one his stomach on the field & one girl was dancing along the lines.


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Could be a relationship talk BigK, they take a life time...or so it seems.


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The good news is we won't have to do homework tonight <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Always a bright side.

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When (if) I become an art teacher I promise to never give homework.


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