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bigkahuna #1693338 10/10/06 08:05 AM
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Highly Pissed I'd say.

NK has announced that it will launch a nuclear tipped missle at the US if we don't submit to their demands. Hmmm... wonder if the silo trap doors in North Dakota are being oiled.

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Actions, level of understanding & words are all important Not all at once & not all in the order one might like to see things happen but all three are critical.

Oi (oy?), with the conversion mess!

I'm going to be finger printed today, for the second time in a year, so I can work with kids in an enrichment program. I guess the first background check wasn't good enough. Bureaucracy! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Gotta work with it or you'll drive yourself crazy.


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hey - maybe your prints have changed Nams?


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Yeah, that's what I said. The stupidest thing is I had them done last year at this location so many school districts could request them if I chose to substitute in other towns.

This location is the regional office for the school I'll be doing the enrichment program for & they don't access their own records for my finger prints? WTH I asked the woman I spoke with (well, in a nicer way of course). She gave me the only answer I couldn't argue with: It's POLICY. Oh, OK, I understand now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

BTW Todd, When you said yesterday in one of your post how charming it was to hear your WW say the OM couldn't get it up I had to laugh. ex said something equally stupid to me once. In talking about the possibility he might be involved with someone else I said we can't make our marriage work if there are three people in it. He said, I'm not saying I'm involved with someone else, but if I were, why not?


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ToddAC #1693342 10/10/06 08:45 AM
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He hasn't contacted me in any way. I'm the 5th, he has ignored us totally. Wiped off. Amazing isn't it?


Yes, it is, Larousse..... I am sorry your dad is\was not there for you....

I believe children look to the adults that choose to put them on this earth to validate them....to help them acquire a sense of self-worth and of value....

Sounds your dad did not play this role in your life..... did your mom come through for you as a child?

...and how do you feel about your dad today? Do you have any desire to meet him inspite of it all, or not?


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ToddAC #1693343 10/10/06 08:49 AM
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Is Steve the name of the motorcycle?


Todd...you are being stubborn....

What have you got to lose? One appointment....I promise you won't die!

Oh, I forgot....you're a Pittman man....

Well.... speak to them both....you're a smart man.....I am sure you've done 'comparative' shopping before!


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larousse #1693344 10/10/06 08:50 AM
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Now I am really depressed. Hopefully, he is at least 90.


yes...at least!


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BTW Todd, When you said yesterday in one of your post how charming it was to hear your WW say the OM couldn't get it up I had to laugh. ex said something equally stupid to me once. In talking about the possibility he might be involved with someone else I said we can't make our marriage work if there are three people in it. He said, I'm not saying I'm involved with someone else, but if I were, why not?


Hi Nams,

Yes, it is sorta funny. I have layers of proof that show otherwise. But WW fails to understand that the important issue now are the lies, not the affair. And every time she tells another lie and I call her on it, she tells another lie to try to get out of the previous lie. She is lost in a maze of lies. When you tell the truth, you don't have to remember what you said. When you lie for so long, no human can keep up with all the stories.

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Call a spade a spade.


Todd...she's still a WW.....it's part of her defense mechanism to 'minimize'.... she's at least in the right direction!


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Hi Larousse,

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Todd...you are being stubborn....

First time I have heard that...

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What have you got to lose? One appointment....I promise you won't die!

What can be accomplished in one appointment?

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Good & Plenty? Are you talking about SF?


Larousse....now it's your turn to go and take a VERY cold shower!


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If only I had that kind of Good n Plenty for my B-day!


Nams....you are requested to report to the shower area!


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lunamare #1693350 10/10/06 09:00 AM
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Now I am really depressed. Hopefully, he is at least 90.


yes...at least!

I found the perfect psychologist locally. He is 115 and he and I have traded war stories about the Roaring Twenties. His wife cheated on him in 1929 so we have that in common also. In fact, I am going to move to the nursing home where he is.

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It's been a while...so yeah, if only I had THAT kind of Good n Plenty for my B-day.


Nams...bet I know what BigK's suggestion will be when he hears this!


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Maybe she went to SF with Luna. Or maybe she had some Good 'n Plenty with Nams. Or called the plumber like Larousse.


...or maybe her knuckles are too sore to type...LOL!

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Well try this on for size.

Do you realize that:

an ounce of silver weighs more than an ounce of lead

but

a pound of silver weighs less than a pound of lead?

Boggles the mind!


Pio...I am curious....don't suppose you know how come?

(...hope won't regret that I asked....LOL!)


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Maybe she went to SF with Luna. Or maybe she had some Good 'n Plenty with Nams. Or called the plumber like Larousse.


...or maybe her knuckles are too sore to type...LOL!

LMAO. Too funny and very true Luna.

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Well whadda ya know.

Who's online shows Dr. Harley on line now.


BigK....where do I go to find the list of those that are online?....mind you, it doesn't necessarily mean HE'S online.... it may look like I maybe online sometimes..... but I am not!

...may have gone off to take a shower or two with so many one-track mind people around here!

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...may have gone off to take a shower or two with so many one-track people around here!


Hey! I resemble that remark.

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And that's important because?....


...because we are part of his 'laboratory'.....

...wonder if he's 'undercover'...

BigK....anyway to find that out?

How about you, Pio?... given your experience at exposing the multiple personality poster.

...but as Dr. Phil would say: If you have nothing to hide, you hide nothing....

So...there...Monsieur le docteur, si vous êtes là à nous lire!


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