Truly, Apparently I misunderstood your message and I apologize. Perhaps I filtered it through some of my own experiences, always a dangerous thing to do. My mistake.

A calm, factual conversation between you and him seems in order so as to clear the air.

JE

Hi everyone -hope you all had a GREAT holiday weekend! I spent a lot of time with friends and family - and it was nice - don't have free time much, so it was great just to visit and relax. Just thought that I'd jump in to update you all on the reprecussions of my last weekend's emotional "meltdown" and irrational behavior. My BF and I did have a great conversation on Friday evening (see above) and I think it went great because I'm soooo bad at really putting my feelings into the right words. Well, yesterday, while at a BBQ, the BF said that he needed to talk to me. Oooops - here it comes, I thought. Well, he told me that he just wanted to let me know ahead of time that he was going on his annual boys golf weekend this coming weekend, and just wanted to let me know early. I thanked him for letting me know - wished him a good time. He had mentioned that he was really going to make an effort to let me know his plans ahead of time, so that we don't have any conflicts like we did before. I told him that I was really trying to do the same. To me, I felt wonderful, because by him making sure that I knew about his weekend meant to me that he did care about my feelings and was making an effort. So, our little "blip" last weekend turned out to be a good thing - we've opened the lines of communication, and we are both feeling pretty darn good!