My W and I have been married almost a year and we are going through a bit of money problems... maily i can no longer afford my home and we are having to sell it and move in with her family until we can find a place we can afford. No Problem there. Here is the problem we have both agreed in the past(when the $$ problems started) that we would not spend over $100 unless we where both in agreement. SO my wife tells me 2 weeks ago that she wants to buy this $500 laptop Puter, so i stated that in our current Financial perdicament that buying something like that didnt make scense so we left it at that... well she got her paycheck yesterday and we right out and bought that puter. so I was a little ill but was calm and asked her why she got it and if she thought that was the best idea right now.....so she comes back and askes if i want her to take it back and i tell her to do what she thinks is right.... what should i do about this???? thaks

This might be something suitable for discussion on the Emotional Needs board. There is not a lot of traffic on this board.

It sounds like you both need to learn something about the Policy of Joint Agreement - not to mention something about money management.