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He walked in the house and sat down at the computer to try to install something for our son - it didn't work so he swore at the computer. A few minutes later I referred to something as "that" while pointing at it, and he snapped at me, saying how was he supposed to know what I was talking about when he wasn't looking at it etc. Apparently he feels "safe" acting irritable around me. <P>Half an hour before that, he was fine on the phone, telling me the details of his father's hospitalization. When he called to say he was going to visit him while I was also going to be out of town, I said, "drive safely". I guess it shows how little I expect, that I was pleasantly surprised when he said, "You too". I was relieved to think that there was even a possibility that he might not be overjoyed if I were to be killed.
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i read your post to my x-adulterer husband, and he said that your husband is probably being irritable with the ow too. small comfort i know, but it helped me to know that. i really smiled when i found out that he lied to her too. it's an evil smile, but i'll take any smile these days!
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Hi Nellie-<P>Glad to see you again. I agree w/ neen. Your h is probably snapping at her too. The tension is mounting and he doesn't know what to do. Unfortuneatly, you still get to see him at his worst.<BR>I am begining to think that not all marriages were meant to be. For whatever reason we get together, it just might not be enough to make it last. <BR>E-mail me if you get a chance. Im in your corner-youre doing great. <P>Cc
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