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The court systems are now making references to a "parenting coordinator" to resolve issues between divorced parents, and keep them out of court.
A judge just recommended that we use one, but I've learned there are no guidlines in my state for this. I'd love to hear anyone's experiences with this.
We used a mediator, and X ignored the mediated agreement, so I don't think he'd use a parenting coordinator either, I just want to have one in place.
It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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newly - you already know my situation, but I'm very disillusioned by the legal system. Only the judge can make decisions and give orders. Everyone else just anlyzes, advises, and recommends solutions.
While the parenting coordinator is less expensive than going to court, don't let it become a "feel good" therapy session. Make sure the parenting coordinator moves both of you towards resolutions to your issues.
Good luck.
Regards, vegman
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