My husband recently lost his job due to an altercation at work he has been home and actively looking for a new job. We have savings so things have not been strained.
Last year I took a real estate course and got licensed half way through my classes I found out we were expecting our third child. I have since had our son and have not been able to pursue my real estate career.
When my husband lost his job we talked and decided that I should get started with my career I interviewed and was offered a great opportunity with a very well known company, I was excited, but my husband did not seem to be so much. He had agreed he would find a job working in the evenings so I could work during the day time.
Well he basically just gave up his unemployment to work a temp job that has hours that will not allow me to work any kind of a job. He will be working at least 60 hours a week
and once again I am stuck at home taking care of the kids and putting my career on hold. This has alaways been the case in our marriage. Every time I want something I have to give it up for him.
I am basically totally dependent on him I have not worked for some time now and he seems to want to keep it that way. I feel like i got licensed for nothing I have had to turn down what could have been a very lucurative career. Is it just me or does it seem like he is sabatoging me and if so what can I do. He will not pay for childcare? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
