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A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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Sounds like her problem is that she is a NEGLECTFUL MOTHER, not that she is a BS. Shame on her for leaving a 4 yr untended!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Well, of course, Mel. The point is that in the heat of the moment, ppl do stupid things, with unintended results. BS's are under tremendous stress, and people under stress make judgment errors.
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A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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Wow,
You didn't do near that bad.
You can even laugh now.
I would guess that thoughts come though - from time to time.
One of my friends once said something to the effect that "NO women is worth getting that upset over."
We never know all the facts though, do we?
SS
I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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**shudder** last year we had a shoot out on the Tyler, Texas court house steps when the STBX H tried to kill his wife and son. He failed because other ppl stopped him, but what a tragedy! The dead were the STBX H and another shooter who tried to stop him while the woman and boy escaped.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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STBX H Mel? Um. I think he's definitely EX or Late so to speak.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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shaddup, BigK! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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