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Currently she's in the midst of the fog. She's moving out this weekend and we're heading for divorce (crib notes version). She's not looking back. I've read where most A may last up to 18 months, and then the WS may experience much of the same emotional grief I currently am going through.
Anybody have experience as to when (of if) the WS will actually hit the wall and realize what they've done?
Thanks.
Hardlesson
BS: Me (41)
FWW: XW (40)
Children: Three daughers (2, 10, 13)
DDay: 6/3/2006
M: 19 years
Divorced: 10/4/2006
Out of the valley of dispair and working my way back up the mountain.
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The wall is exposure in the fast, simultaneous, and furious form.
Have you exposed?
What is the non-crib notes version of your story. That would be much more insightful.
Plank.
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it would be best if you could give some detail of the M and affair as you know them to ensure you get the best advice and thoughts from the experienced MBers.
Without some background it would be dealing in the dark and we could say or give advice thats more harmful than helpful.
Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. Glad you found us. The good news is that affairs almost always end.
Are you deployed, or are you at home?
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