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Hello, this is my first time posting and I hoping somone and give me a little advise.
My husbad and I have been married for 4 years together 6. When he came into my life I thought he was a God send. I was a single mother struggling and he just came in and saved me and my son. The first 4 years were WONDERFUL!! Then last year we had some problems, seperated for about 3 months he came back home and tells me he met a girl and now she was pregnant. I took him back and have been trying to get past that. Now fast forward to now I am pregnant our first together, for some reason my husband is acting so weird. He is not at home now he ia always angry and quick to jump down my throat. I do not believe that another woman is involved right now, but I am not sure what is going on. This has been going on for awhile. he will come home things will be good and then we will get into an argument and he will just leave and not come home. I admit i will say get out at times but I am thinking we will eventually cool off and work it out. I am at a point right now wondering if I should even try anymore. He is avoiding my calls and I have not talked to him in over 3 days. I know where he is staying and I do mot like the so called friend he is staying with.
I feel like I am back in high school with another no good boyfriend instead of a grown married woman.
I am hoping someone can give me some insight as to what may be going on.
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Hello 309!
I can't be of much help, but this doesn't sound good. I'm confused....did he get this girl pregnant?? Either way, it sounds like he may be having an affair.
You should try and post this over in the Infidelity "general questions" forum. That gets a lot more traffic than this one.
Good luck!!
Last edited by Angel_three; 07/11/06 03:12 PM.
Me - 40
Hubby - 59
Married 3/1/02
This is 3rd marriage for each of us. We WANT to make this work!
He has 3 kids - I have 3 - We have our work cut our for us.
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Oh boy, do I know what you mean. The drama feels like highschool, except there are now children involved! Do you have a counselor, clergy person or close friend whom you trust to confide in., You could also read the message boards and book chapters at **edit**
it really gave me alot of help and hope....I was doing things that were driving my spouse away (because I was so confused) instead of bringing him closer. I hope all goes well for you and your family.
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