I have not posted in a long time. I just wanted to let the people who helped me through my situation that I thannk them very much.

My situation has taken a huge 180, my soon ex wife has made a decision to work on our marriage. we have a mediation hearing on july 20, However she wants to work on us.

I don't have alot of answeres to her reason why yet, but when I get more info I sure will post them.

I can tell you from experiance this board sure knows what to do in this troubled time of ones life. I have had the longest roughest year and a half in my life. Im sure I have aged a little bit from all the stress and financial garbage. I can say this I was the one who took the blow from every direction nothing went my way with divorce court and i was the one who wanted my marriage and she was the one who had infidelity and wanted out.

I do know i have a long road a head of me in recovery and i will do my best because I never quit at anything I do.

Like I said before Thank You to all the persons who helped me.

Familygone,

I’m happy for you to hear the good news!

I see you’ve been registered for a long time, but please don’t forget about the methods that you have learned here.

It’s wonderful to hear about situations taking a turn for the better.

Best regards,
Plank.

Welcome Back FG!

I'd been wondering how you were doing!


Wonderful News! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />



We'll get those answers later. The important thing right now is that she's willing to work on the M.



Experience is a tough teacher. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />



Yup! Hang around and we'll help the best we can!


Stay Strong! (and give the DD a hug! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> )

Plank & Walkingthefield thanks for your response.

Walkingthefield, I can tell you this I stopped posting and began to look at life through new eyes. I started to just work on myself and look at all my mistakes. I just had to do it, I did not try, I did it and I took the word TRY out of my vocabulary and just did it. My W still has alot to deal with and when she is ready to open her heart up to me i will be there for her. I never gave up. Im glad we had to keep contact because of D3. I did cut all contact with W for a while. I planB her and she really did not like that and made every attept to contact me however i stuck to my guns.

On a good note Im soon to be promoted to Sergeant some time before the winter. I do need the 21% pay raise but I know I will be a good leader for the Police Officers that i will supervise. MB has taught me alot even in life in general. I will post when I get more updates.

W contacted me today and she wants to go on vacation (Disney). So we will be planning that trip for late July.

I really do love her with all my heart and I know we both have a long road a head of us and we will make our M stronger and better. If I had to do it all over again I would pick W in a heartbeat.

FG,

Good to hear from you. Now remember you are at a critical time and this isn't the time to shed your support. She is still in recovery and so are you.

Can you get with a good MC or call Jennifer C @ MB to get a recovery plan together?

Have fun w/Mickey and friends..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

L.