last night i was going out to dinner with a few of my coworkers (five) at a nice sushi and steak restaurant near my house...i know for a fact my xh used to go there b/c we both take ds there...and ds loves sushi!

I am walking in...all dressed up and looking smashing of course...and I happen to glance about 30 to 40 feet away at the parking lot b/c I wanted to see if my friend Sue's car was already there or not...the place was packed. I saw a familiar face...and he suddenly met my eyes. and had a shocked look also...he was carrying over his shoulders a sleeping little boy with blonde hair...and he was getting in an suv, with a woman with blonde hair.

all happened really suddenly...there was literally a crowd of people flooding into the restaurant and I got taken in with that crowd...about 15 seconds after it happened, I realized WHO THAT WAS...it was darth. and my ds. and another woman.

so I rush out to get a glimpse and take a photo with my camera phone and their black suv (not his) is high tailing it out of the parking lot.

LYING CHEATING WS WHO DON'T REPENT OR CHANGE NEVER GET ANY BETTER...THEY DON'T.

my coworkers were amazed. They said "well are you sure it was him?" they asked where he lives now, and I said about 20 minutes north of here...they said "does his affair wife get to this area much anymore?" I said no. They said "did he eat here some? didn't you say your ds likes it?" I said yea. THey said "well he is having yet another affair honey..."

What I do know: my xh is leaving with ds for 8 days to disneyworld TODAY. along wtih affair wife, her children and my xsil and xbil and their kids....for total of seven kids...which is something he doesn't really like...seven kids and no time for himself....coworkers said last night..."he was getting a fix wtih his girl on the side before leaving town honey...and he took his ds with him to ensure that the wifey would agree to let him leave the house alone"...

they all agreed that it must be hard for him to get outta the house with her breathing down his neck...and for the fact he's had so many darn affairs.

so that's last night.

unable to prove it..unless I ask ds next week if he went to have sushi with daddy at our favorite place. gosh i want to have this become something...yet another incidence of my xh's being a ws...to my new attorney to "Pad my File" now that i'm done being ms. nice peach.

Peach, this may explain why darth is being a sorry excuse for a father lately. He has another OW while with his current OW <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> ...sheeesh!

I can only imagine why kind of justifications and emotions he must be using to cover up the conflict he must be feeling inside. So he's taking it out on his DS...how nice of him.

All the money, mansions, trips and OW he is using to cover up his inner conflicts will NEVER make hime happy!

How is your DS recovering from his sunburn at the hands of darth? I hope your get some clear direction on your custody goals from you lawyer.

Good luck peach!

HTW

just peachy... can you email me??

mboyea2@yahoo.com

i noticed you are from ga, and wanted to ask you some ?'s about the place... thanks!

mlhb

"And looking Smashing.." There's a rock group, oh never mind that's Smashing Pumpkins, not Smashing Peaches..

All kidding aside, I am so sorry your had to see that arrogant ?*$** with you son while engaged in what most be adultery with another unsuspecting soul. I must say I am not at all sorry that Affair Wifey is probably reaping what she sowed. Here's to hoping that Disneyworld is fun for everyone but the "dark one".

You keep biding your time, collecting your data, documenting and so on and from what you describe of this man he will give you all you need to limit his contact and influence on your DS sometime in the near future.

Lastly, I'm envious of the great sushi. I love it!